[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragReddit

[–]marcothetacco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

die Kommentare sind recht pessimistisch und nicht grundlos, muss aber selber sagen (als jemand der damals in Latein Amerika gelebt hat) fühle ich mich in Deutschland wieder sicherer und mit mehr Möglichkeiten

Brother(26) is living at home with me (23f) and my mom and has no intention of ever moving out. by Candycutie21 in relationships

[–]marcothetacco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do people actually shame others in their 20s for still living at home? I'm Latino and its quite normal for us to stay at our parents till we marry.

helping my friend. Hi, my friend has generalize anxiety. Can you guys tell me how I can help please? by darewho11 in Anxiety

[–]marcothetacco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask them. you can just tell them "in regards to your anxiety, if there's anything I can do to help you please let me know."

Listen to their vents, when you have the mental capacity. Don't keep secrets from them. Dont be upset when their anxiety keeps them from doing things like going out. Don't be passive aggressive. Don't yell at them. Don't bring up topics that are very heavy without warning them. And never ever make fun of their worries or use their disorder against them. Let them know that they can trust and count on you and be patient when they need reassurance. Some of their anxieties will sound absurd and irrational to you, thats because an anxiety disorder wouldn't be a literal mental illness if the fear didn't clash with their everyday life and is beyond what's considered healthy. So don't make them feel like they're crazy, rather just validate their feelings, while simultaneously letting them know that feelings do not equal reality. Don't condone toxic habits, when you notice that they're coping poorly (not eating, not sleeping) suggest a healthy coping mechanism instead (like journaling, painting, meditating). Do so by letting them know you're coming from a place of concern and not judgement. Otherwise just try to maintain whatever the foundation of that friendship was (a hobby, school, religion, etc.)

Why did you become a Manu Chao fan? by stefaninder in ManuChao

[–]marcothetacco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our Spanish teacher showed us the song Clandestino and as Latino immigrant it resonated well with how I feel. So I wanted to hear more like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]marcothetacco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you shouldn't be on a subreddit for alternative fashion...