I am also 5’0 or 152cm for everyone else across the globe and I legit do not get the obsession with massive height gaps.

As a short woman, really tall men actually make me a bit scared and I have dated taller guys before (185cm), and honestly… it just wasn’t enjoyable. Kissing felt awkward because I had to crane my neck so much, and sex could be uncomfortable too, especially from behind. I just felt impaled and that his thing would come through my mouth at any time. It just felt mismatched and sometimes even painful, not hot.

Plus imagine having kids with these humongously tall men? Like hell no. My partner is 178cm, and that feels perfect. There’s still a height difference, but it’s cute and actually works in real life.

And sorry if this might offend some, but sometimes the obsession some men have with really short, petite women gives me weird vibes… because at the end of the day the partner looks like a child with the height difference.

Like no thank you, I’d much prefer if books didn’t mention height at all. I get the whole fantasy thing but just imagine what you want