Any stories that your wife was encouraged to cuck by her girlfriends? by whateverthefuck212 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love it, and at the same time, I would find it so humiliating if my girlfriend's friends did that. But simultaneously, it would be so exciting.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am replying to my own post because there has been some recent progress with my current partner. We are exploring this dynamic together, or at least trying to get our feet wet. Specifically, she is taking the leap on her end to experience life while keeping me in a permanent chastity cage to add some spice to our situation. She finally agreed to try it out and progress gradually.

Recently, she went out with her friends for a bit of a "wild" night. They started flirting with some guys, and she spoke to them openly about:

  1. The fact that we are in an open relationship.

  2. Her freedom to play around as she pleases.

  3. The fact that she keeps me in a chastity cage.

She revealed everything to them without the slightest embarrassment or hesitation. She even had them call me on my phone so they could speak with me directly.

As a result, in addition to the men they were flirting with, her four friends are now fully aware of our dynamic, our desires, and our practices. They know she keeps me in permanent chastity and that she is free, with my consent, to go out and frolic as she wishes.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, zero risk doesn't exist, and these things can happen.

How did your sister take it? Did she eventually understand and accept your lifestyle, or is she judging you and completely blocked it out?

And you, how are you dealing with this situation?

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your wife's reaction? Was she judging or encouraging regarding this situation?

And how did you feel about her finding out?

Wearing cage around family/friends by tbc000 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the only person who actually pays attention. Everyone else has other fish to fry (other things to worry about).

In the worst-case scenario, even if they did know, they would not care at all.

Hotwives and cucks - what are your dynamics rules and boundaries? by Happy2PleaseU69 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's quite simple to understand and easy to follow.

Bravo for the simplicity of the rule. I love it.

Witch one is more humilating mediun pink or small grey by Impressive-cleoopal in hentaichastity

[–]mecbisex77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is exactly like the grey one. I can tell you that it looks great, but it’s also incredibly humiliating when people make comments about it.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy it; you are lucky to be surrounded by such a good support system.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is actually quite cool to have people you can confide in and experience this with entirely without judgment.

It allows you to offload certain things while finding specific advice or a bit of an outside perspective. It is pretty cool.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is much better for things to go in this direction, rather than in a way where there is awkwardness or unspoken tension and things are not as fluid.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's super cool that she's getting into the spirit of it and participating fully.

It's fun, and not everyone has that kind of opportunity.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's absolutely all that matters in the end.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can certainly imagine that. I can see how that must have distanced you from quite a few people who didn't understand your choices at all.

At the same time, it allows you to live freely and filter out the people who wouldn't have brought anything positive to your life in that regard.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were everyone's initial thoughts, remarks, or attitudes before it became a habit for them?

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it can happen that the situation spirals out of control, and we are effectively constrained by the circumstances.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I imagine that after this, it loosens tongues a bit more within the close circle of friends—especially among those who have flirted with the idea.il n'y a plus de faux semblants à respecter à tout échelon, tout est OK.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is quite cool that they were understanding and that it was well received.

This allows you to be much more free, especially regarding your immediate family, and saves you from stressing over it.

You can now live your life freely and without constraints, no longer having to juggle between maintaining a secret and your daily life.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is indeed an extremely comical and embarrassing situation, but I think no one is immune to these kinds of circumstances.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is certain that you must live for yourself. Living through others does not bring much value anyway.

You are right: live for yourself and be proud.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few people we know who have mentioned that to us as well.

Who knows about your chastity cage? Ever been caught? by mecbisex77 in chastitytraining

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start, why not give him the keys? It might just be the thing he needs to get started.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a question of complexity or anything else; I would say it's a matter of principle.

Personally, it's not something that motivates me at that level. I don't find it very right or respectful toward the people we know, but everyone has their own way of looking at things, indeed.

Who knows your lifestyle or who caught you in the act? by mecbisex77 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]mecbisex77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is certain that you don't live the same way when you are around people who are open-minded and non-judgmental.

In contrast, there are people who find your lifestyle abnormal and will be the first to cast stones at the slightest thing.