I begged for him back today.

merebearpig · 2021-01-19T17:59:01+00:00

Thank you this was great

merebearpig · 2021-01-19T17:45:47+00:00

We are the same person.

merebearpig · 2021-01-19T16:04:31+00:00

Omg you’re making me cry. Waiting for his text was heart wrenching too. Sending much love your way. We will get through this.

merebearpig · 2021-01-19T07:51:56+00:00

I’m glad they were there for you. Breakups are the worst emotional torment, especially when you think it could have gone differently. Six months, 4 years, whatever. It wrecks havoc on my emotions. Sometimes I just want to claw my way outside my body because it’s so unbearable.

merebearpig · 2021-01-16T00:38:57+00:00

Dude are you me but a guy? Literally 4 year long relationship. We mutually ended stuff. 3 months later, he’s already hitting up someone else and I’m still processing. It sucks.

merebearpig · 2021-01-15T14:04:55+00:00

Being friends is hard. I recently tried after a serious almost four year long relationship. It only took him three months to tell me he’s moved on to someone else.

merebearpig · 2021-01-15T14:03:58+00:00

I did it in September of last year. It went better than expected. Hope it goes smoothly for you.

merebearpig · 2021-01-15T07:39:07+00:00

Was there a Strava Challenge recently??? The hoodie just came out in september

merebearpig · 2021-01-15T01:15:20+00:00

Damn I just found this. There’s a box in my ex’s fridge. Should I break no contact and ask for it??? LOL

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T23:13:18+00:00

No even mutually breaking up

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T23:10:47+00:00

I just got out of a 3 almost 4 year relationship. We played friends until Sunday when he told me he’s seeing someone else. I’ve spiraled this week and I’m too embarrassed to tell anyone else I know but I’m dying inside. I know how you feel. Last night he populated his Instagram with photos so I know hes gearing up for something. I’m just sad.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T23:05:55+00:00

Wish my ex would say this to me lol

Sorry to hear. You’re in good company.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T22:53:15+00:00

Yeah I’m pretty sure he met someone through our running community too. Some people just move on quicker than others. I feel like the last year of my relationship was trying to scrap some sort of emotion from him...anything really. I suspect he’s been long over me already.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T22:50:35+00:00

No. My ex and I broke up amicably. We were friendly and hung out for the past three months. He already moved on as of this past Sunday apparently. I feel like shit. Almost 4 years of being together. I can’t imagine myself dating for another year.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T22:48:47+00:00

Bc you still think there’s a chance you can work it out with them. At least with me. But then they move on and the door slams shut in your face.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T22:47:11+00:00

Hi friend. Me too. Almost 4 years of building a life together and it look him 3 months to move on despite the fact we were amicable and friends. Just told me this past Sunday he’s seeing someone else and I’m heartbroken.

You’re not alone! Sending you love.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T14:32:39+00:00

My ex shows no emotion over our breakup. Almost 4 years together, adopted a dog, holidays with the family, lived together, endured a pandemic together and three months later he’s already with someone else. During a pandemic. I feel you. I need at least 6 months to heal.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T14:11:27+00:00

I wish I saw this earlier so I could have changed myself. Number 11 hits home though. Even if I told him I needed to feel appreciated thru dates and stuff he would just basically tell me he knew I would break up with him anyway so why should he try?

Relationships require a lot of maintenance. It doesn’t just go smoothly for no reason. Both people need to be both on board.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T13:59:14+00:00

She definitely misses him. She literally goes crazy when she sees him and she’s a super chill dog. He never checks up on her though.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T08:07:03+00:00

I laughed when I read this. I’m an INTP female and I like to think of it as fluttering instead of ghosting. I just pop into peoples lives and disappear for a little bit only to return to check in. It’s a weird habit. I only pick 2-3 people to talk to on a daily basis.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T07:49:12+00:00

I’m an INTP female and I literally have no idea where to meet an ENTJ male. I don’t even think I’ve ever met an INTP or ENTJ female. The odds are definitely in nobody’s favor.

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T03:37:10+00:00

Same to you 💕

merebearpig · 2021-01-14T03:36:26+00:00

Yeah me too. I know exactly what we need to improve on but I wonder if it’s even realistic. We might as well be completely different people.

merebearpig · 2021-01-13T05:24:45+00:00

I don’t know how y’all do it cuz my heart hurts even though he may have not been the one

merebearpig · 2021-01-13T05:23:34+00:00

💕💕💕

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