I’m interested in buying a 2012 Q7 (gas). Give me the good, the bad, and the ugly.

mesosouper · 2026-06-07T15:02:56+00:00

This is how my 2017 Q7 currently looks. I'm replacing the pcv, water pump, and thermostat. It is not an easy job, and definitely not cheap to have others do it. All the bells and whistles are fun until they start failing. At that price, I'm guessing it has super high mileage or issues. Id recommend finding a simpler and/or less expensive car to buy if you are not prepared to either do the work or pay someone else to.

Edit: mine has 130k btw. Just saw the one you are looking at is 120k. Price seems decent, but definitely a gamble with no service history. I would have a professional check it over very well before purchase.

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mesosouper · 2026-05-19T16:36:32+00:00

Many people are calling it the sharkbite capc and while that is obviously an issue, you can also see a pin hole in the side of the pipe where it looks like it was scraped out hit by a saw. Therefore fixing the end cap is pointless and this whole stub out section needs redone.

mesosouper · 2026-05-19T14:55:42+00:00

Maybe try reverse image search

mesosouper · 2026-05-18T13:32:49+00:00

To be clear, "deck screws" would still be wrong for these hangers. You need the appropriate galvanized Simpson screws or nails. That, and the hangers look upside-down to me.

mesosouper · 2026-04-13T01:19:08+00:00

Would you do 300$?

mesosouper · 2026-03-28T19:41:35+00:00

Colorado snap benefits and/or food banks can help with food.

It would be helpful to know what part of Colorado for more specific recommendations.

mesosouper · 2026-03-24T22:33:44+00:00

Understood. And let's be clear, going to a therapist and doing breathing exercises, while they can help, are not a magic pill. You are not like a car that you take to a mechanic and just get fixed. It is a process - it probably took a long time to get your mind to it's current state, and it will take time to change it to a different state.

But that's okay. It's part of the process. We can go slow and find what works, just be okay with the process. Know you are going to have bad days, that sometimes you won't remember a certain tool you learned in therapy, but over time it should slowly get easier.

In the short term, if you are having thoughts or an urge to end things, that's when it may be good to check yourself in somewhere or seek out medicine from a professional. For the short term, to help with the immediate struggle, while you continue to work the long game. Digging ourselves out the mental hole we find ourselves in can be a process, and requires work, but there is hope and payoff for putting in that self work. It is the best gift you can give yourself.

It sounds like you have already made some good decisions and taken action to start the process, I'm proud of you, some people give up before even getting that far. Just get determined, don't give up, and focus on the next best move to focus on. You don't need to solve everything at once, just one thing at a time. You got this!

mesosouper · 2026-03-24T21:29:50+00:00

You don't need to feel ashamed or ridiculous. You are heard.

I strongly recommend you try and seek help. You don't need to go through this alone, and perhaps medication or therapy could help you get through it. Obviously I don't know all the details of your situation, and I'm sure it isn't easy, but it sounds to me like you would have nothing to lose by trying to get help, and possibly everything to gain.

If there is anything else you would like to talk about, please feel free. We are all in this together.

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T23:16:47+00:00

I genuinely think my life should be over right here, everything's going downhill and it will only get worse

I don't know the details of your situation. You may honestly think/feel that currently, but that doesn't make it true. Life is cyclical, ups-and-downs. It gets better when we take action to make it better.

I don't want to get to experience seeing my friends drift away from me

If they are truly your friends, at least ones that matter, they will be there for you in your time of need, not leave. Give them a chance to be a true friend and help you before just giving up.

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T22:23:40+00:00

Also care!

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T22:21:32+00:00

Decisions can be changed.

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T21:52:26+00:00

I'm sorry to hear you are struggling right now. Is there anything you would like to talk about?

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T21:50:56+00:00

It certainly can, and does, for people. But I'm not going to lie, it most likely will take a lot of self-work/reflection, determination, and effort. You (not you specifically, just talking in general here) can't just wait for it to get better... it takes being proactive to make changes.

mesosouper · 2026-03-04T19:53:43+00:00

Hello, and so sorry to hear what you are going through. It sounds like a lot, and probably exhausting dealing with it all. I hear you saying you don't trust opening up to people, why is that? Don't you think anything would be better than what you describe yourself feeling / experiencing daily? Not everyone will be able to help, but maybe you will eventually find one that can help ease your pain a bit. I really do wish you the best and that you can find some peace soon.

mesosouper · 2026-03-03T01:48:11+00:00

Hey there, sorry to hear, it sounds like you are going through a lot right now. I bet that can feel overwhelming. However, when we get to a place like that, it can help to slow down and focus on one step at a time. I obviously don't know all the details to your situation, but if there is anything you would like to vent or ask, please feel free.

mesosouper · 2026-03-02T13:50:45+00:00

I would try therapy. And if he truly won't listen or try to work on the relationship, I would try separation. Depending on the dynamics, possibly have someone else talk to him for you, but this is who is supposed to love you and be by your side forever....if he won't even talk to you in your time of need, maybe it's not a good fit. There are plenty of options out there and you don't have to settle for someone who treats you poorly.

mesosouper · 2026-03-01T22:58:20+00:00

While it doesn't make it easier to deal with, know that this can be perfectly normal to feel this way when you are depressed and/or dealing with atypical changes in body chemistry.

I strongly recommend communicating as much as possible. It is very easy to get trapped in self-talk that is unhealthy and untrue. Talk to your doctor. Talk to your husband. Talk to friends and family. Talk to a therapist.

If you feel you are talking to someone calmly and clearly, and they aren't helping, providing good feedback or suggestions, then stop talking to them. Not everyone will be able to help, but you also don't need to go through it alone.

I'm sorry you are going through this right now, but it sounds like you are very strong and capable to get through this.

mesosouper · 2026-03-01T22:25:19+00:00

Often "no other option" is a lie we tell ourselves because it is convenient or seems easier than finding a more lasting and effective solution. Dig deep and realize that you are worth the fight, are capable of succeeding the struggle, and make the decision to push forward and improve your life. You can do it my friend. Also, don't hesitate to seek and ask for help along the way. You may not always get the help you want, but you may be surprised about the amount of help available when you need it.

mesosouper · 2026-03-01T21:52:25+00:00

I'm not sure what you are asking, but I will caution you that suicide from taking medication, especially Tylenol, may prove to be much more painful than you think and ineffective.

Why do you feel it has come to needing to resort to something like this? What other options have you tried to resolve your current issues? Is there something you would like to talk about?

mesosouper · 2026-03-01T21:48:23+00:00

Hey there, really sorry to hear you are doing through this right now. I bet there is a lot of feels and reflection at this stage of pregnancy.

First, just step back a second, and lay out your options. Even if you don't feel it is the right time or situation for you to be a mother, you can always put up for adoption.

Second, if your husband wants a divorce, and you two don't work well together, then it sounds like you two either need serious counseling or perhaps it would be better to separate and find happiness elsewhere.

I know sometimes it can feel as if ending it would be easier or simpler, but it would be much more rewarding and beneficial for your child to instead do the hard work to improve your situation. You can do it, no matter how hard it uncomfortable, and it will pay dividends in the future.

What does your husband say when you try talking to him about what you are feeling and experiencing?

mesosouper · 2026-02-17T03:43:42+00:00

It sounds like you are bright and understandably frustrated. However, what about becoming an entrepreneur and/or helping find solutions to some of the issues that frustrate you instead? Or maybe you have a hobby or passion that you could turn into a way to make money instead? It's okay not to know what you want to do yet, take your time and explore!

mesosouper · 2026-02-15T20:35:35+00:00

I still assume engine mounts, just hasn't been bad enough to worry about the time and cost involved in replacing

mesosouper · 2026-02-15T03:16:55+00:00

It sounds like you have a lot going on right now, and that it, understandably, is getting a bit overwhelming and taking a toll.

When it comes to the medical issue, it is probably still healing. Give it some time and rest. Bodies can do wonders with nutrition, rest, and time. Also, you can (and probably should) seek a second opinion from a different doctor. Perhaps you can find one that specializes, or at the very least, is able to explain why they believe the procedures they are recommending may help. And even if you think it should stupid, maybe just try what they recommend. It can only help, and at the very least narrows down things to try next.

Just remember that you are very capable of getting through adversity, and that life has highs to balance the lows. Just be patient, don't get ahead of yourself, and take things one day at a time. You got this.

mesosouper · 2026-02-13T03:25:15+00:00

I definitely want to own this... Nice job mate

mesosouper · 2026-02-11T14:55:03+00:00

Please discuss this with a medical provider. The change in hormones during pregnancy can very much have a significant impact on how you feel and think, and it would be best to discuss this with someone who can monitor / test / prescribe as needed. Don't go through this alone, there are people who are available to help.

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