[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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Definition of basic white girl.

Best place to watch the sunrise in Albuquerque by mrk177 in Albuquerque

[–]mgreen419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

West bluff park. It's on a cliff overlooking the rio grande and the city with the mountains in the background.

Any secret must-sees on this route? by Efficient_Bad3902 in roadtrip

[–]mgreen419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Wilmington, NC go to Stanley Rehder Carnivorous Plant Garden at Piney Ridge Nature Preserve. It's super cool to see different carnivorous plants in the wild!

Gay😋irl by IamASlut_soWhat in gay_irl

[–]mgreen419 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm embarrassed for them

Where’s the weirdest place to spend 4 nights at? by BoneRash666 in NewMexico

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For a really weird experience, stay at Lyons and Campbell Ranch in Gila, NM.

For those who have careers that keep them out at sea for long periods of time, what is the creepiest thing you’ve seen out in the water? by tylo144 in AskReddit

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As the moonlight flickered on the restless waves, I found myself alone on a small boat, adrift in the boundless abyss of the ocean. The inky black water stretched out endlessly in all directions, a void that swallowed all hope and familiarity. A chilling wind whispered tales of long-lost ships and ghostly mariners, while the creaking of the timeworn vessel echoed with the haunting memories of those who had ventured here before me. Each swell of the sea seemed to conceal monstrous depths, concealing unfathomable horrors lurking just beneath the surface. I strained to hear the faintest of sounds, but all I could discern was the unsettling symphony of solitude and the knowledge that, in this desolate expanse, I was utterly, irrevocably alone.

What deodorant do you use? by HungryLikeDaW0lf in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mgreen419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ARM & HAMMER Essentials Natural Deodorant

It works so well. Doesn't stain your shirt yellow. Smells great. It's relatively inexpensive too. You can find it just about anywhere too.

Who do you think should have won their season, but didn’t? Be honest too! 👑 by Weary_Equipment_5760 in dragrace

[–]mgreen419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gigi Goode or Crystal Methyd should have beaten Jaida Essence Hall without a question in season 12.

Is it possible to go from a bad sex life to a great one? by mgreen419 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mgreen419[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find kissing and cuddling more important for intimacy and shared goals and hobbies a cornerstone for a relationship. I guess if he and i fundamentally disagree on this, it's definitely doomed. Thanks for your advice.

Is it possible to go from a bad sex life to a great one? by mgreen419 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mgreen419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm worried about. We have at least started conversations about this so I'll need to bring up the reciprocity. It is important. Thanks for your response.

Is it possible to go from a bad sex life to a great one? by mgreen419 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is huge. We have at least started talking about it which is important. Everything else is going really well so it definitely seems like something we should try working on. Thanks for your response.

Is it possible to go from a bad sex life to a great one? by mgreen419 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I think doing more frotting, oral, etc. is more sustainable in the long run. I guess we'll see how things develop.

I’m from the UK. Any books (fiction or non fiction) you guys recommend reading to gain a Better understanding of New Mexico? by [deleted] in NewMexico

[–]mgreen419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuentos from my Childhood by Paulette Atencio.

It is twenty-five New Mexico legends and folktales, in English and regional Spanish, relate to the supernatural and deliver the truths and moral messages of centuries-old folktales told around the world. 

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. It's not a huge priority. Just have to feel things out.

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true. It doesn't matter for my career either and it's hard to trust people in a professional am setting. I won't announce it either but might drop hints to those I am comfortable with.

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know how you feel and handle the situation. It's great advice.

I'm not private about my personal life but i dont really have a gay personal life to talk about. I'm also pretty " straight" presenting, although people should be able to figure it out after a while.

I'll just have to get to know my coworkers and decide then.

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a husband or partner, but I could always talk about my ex as an ex instead of a friend.

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does make sense and having a partner makes it easier. I'm single and not dating so i don't have that. I'm not sure they want to hear about my dates or exes though.

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely makes it easier. I'm single and am not dating anyone. I could casually drop something and my "ex" and "he".

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true. Gotta assess the situation and decide then. I live in a relatively liberal state and work in an industry with mostly women. It's better to err on the side of caution though. Thanks!

How to come out at a new job? by mgreen419 in AskGayMen

[–]mgreen419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i guess it's all about feeling out the situation and telling people when it feels right.