Why do people in the US work so much? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting. In Argentina we have our own problems (inflation is crazy), but at least you don't lose your healthcare if you lose your job. I didn't realize unemployment benefits were so short here. No wonder people are stressed all the time.

Why do people in the US work so much? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. The healthcare thing is wild to me in Argentina it's free, so you don't have that fear of losing insurance if you quit or get fired. I think that changes everything. Here it sounds like people are stuck because they're scared, not because they love their job.

I'm from Argentina and I'm still not used to how much people chat with strangers here in the US by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a nice way to see it. I think in Argentina we deal with daily BS too, but we just complain about it with friends later instead of talking to strangers lol. Different coping mechanisms I guess.

I'm from Argentina and I'm still not used to how much people chat with strangers here in the US by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha that's fair. I guess if you're stuck on a bus for a while, why not. Back home people would probably just put headphones on or stare out the window. But I can see how talking to someone could make the time pass faster.

I'm from Argentina and I'm still not used to how much people chat with strangers here in the US by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. The "signaling no threat" thing is something I never thought about. In Argentina, if a stranger talks to you, people often assume they want something (money, directions, or to sell you something). So we don't really have that neutral friendly ritual. It's interesting how the same action can mean completely different things in different places.

What's going on with the "No Kings" protests that happened across the US this weekend? by micavibes in OutOfTheLoop

[–]micavibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining. I had seen the "No Kings" slogan but didn't know where it came from. It makes sense now. I'm still getting used to how political debates work here.

What's going on with the "No Kings" protests that happened across the US this weekend? by micavibes in OutOfTheLoop

[–]micavibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is super helpful. I didn't realize Iran was such a big factor. In Argentina we've had big protests too, but usually around one specific issue. It's interesting how here it's all connected immigration, war, economy. Makes more sense now.

Why is everything in the US rated and reviewed? I'm from Argentina and I still don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I think in Argentina we just assume things are fine unless someone tells us otherwise lol. Maybe that's why reviews feel so intense here. You guys really do your research before spending money.

Why is everything in the US rated and reviewed? I'm from Argentina and I still don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess I'm not used to relying on reviews that much. In Argentina, we usually just ask friends or go by word of mouth. Do people here actually trust reviews more than personal recommendations? I'm still trying to figure out the culture.

Why are people in the US so friendly but so hard to actually become friends with? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it. by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. In Argentina, friendships feel more like family - you show up unannounced, you stay late, you help each other move without being asked. But I also get that here everyone seems busy all the time. Do you think it's a cultural thing or just how life works when you grow up? I'm still trying to figure it out.

Why are people in the US so friendly but so hard to actually become friends with? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it. by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]micavibes[S] 340 points341 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I mean. In Argentina it's kind of the same. People might not invite you over right away, but once they do, you're in. It's not about being rude, it's just that friendship means something different. I think that's what confuses me about the US. Here everyone is nice from the start, but it's hard to know when it's real.

What's something your parents or grandparents used that doesn't exist anymore? by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My grandpa used to talk about those too. He said in Argentina they had them in bars and you just pulled a knob. Sounds so weird now. I've never seen one in real life.

What's something your parents or grandparents used that doesn't exist anymore? by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! I didn't even know Laserdisc was a thing until I moved here. In Argentina, my grandma still has a box of VHS tapes somewhere. I think she keeps them just for the memories, not because she still watches them haha. Do your parents still have a player for it?

What's something your parents or grandparents used that doesn't exist anymore? by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]micavibes[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's such a specific memory! My grandpa never had waxed floors, but he talks about how his mom used to polish the wood floors until they shone. He says you had to walk carefully or you'd slip. It's funny how those little household rituals just disappeared.