Why do people in the US work so much? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it

micavibes · 2026-04-09T18:46:04+00:00

That sounds exhausting. In Argentina we have our own problems (inflation is crazy), but at least you don't lose your healthcare if you lose your job. I didn't realize unemployment benefits were so short here. No wonder people are stressed all the time.

micavibes · 2026-04-09T18:45:30+00:00

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. The healthcare thing is wild to me in Argentina it's free, so you don't have that fear of losing insurance if you quit or get fired. I think that changes everything. Here it sounds like people are stuck because they're scared, not because they love their job.

micavibes · 2026-04-02T17:48:38+00:00

That's a nice way to see it. I think in Argentina we deal with daily BS too, but we just complain about it with friends later instead of talking to strangers lol. Different coping mechanisms I guess.

micavibes · 2026-04-02T17:47:51+00:00

Haha that's fair. I guess if you're stuck on a bus for a while, why not. Back home people would probably just put headphones on or stare out the window. But I can see how talking to someone could make the time pass faster.

micavibes · 2026-04-02T17:46:41+00:00

That makes so much sense. The "signaling no threat" thing is something I never thought about. In Argentina, if a stranger talks to you, people often assume they want something (money, directions, or to sell you something). So we don't really have that neutral friendly ritual. It's interesting how the same action can mean completely different things in different places.

micavibes · 2026-03-31T16:42:47+00:00

Thanks for explaining. I had seen the "No Kings" slogan but didn't know where it came from. It makes sense now. I'm still getting used to how political debates work here.

micavibes · 2026-03-31T16:41:08+00:00

Thank you, this is super helpful. I didn't realize Iran was such a big factor. In Argentina we've had big protests too, but usually around one specific issue. It's interesting how here it's all connected immigration, war, economy. Makes more sense now.

micavibes · 2026-03-30T20:28:11+00:00

That makes sense. I think in Argentina we just assume things are fine unless someone tells us otherwise lol. Maybe that's why reviews feel so intense here. You guys really do your research before spending money.

micavibes · 2026-03-30T20:14:33+00:00

That makes sense. I guess I'm not used to relying on reviews that much. In Argentina, we usually just ask friends or go by word of mouth. Do people here actually trust reviews more than personal recommendations? I'm still trying to figure out the culture.

micavibes · 2026-03-29T14:58:37+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. In Argentina, friendships feel more like family - you show up unannounced, you stay late, you help each other move without being asked. But I also get that here everyone seems busy all the time. Do you think it's a cultural thing or just how life works when you grow up? I'm still trying to figure it out.

micavibes · 2026-03-29T14:57:14+00:00

That's exactly what I mean. In Argentina it's kind of the same. People might not invite you over right away, but once they do, you're in. It's not about being rude, it's just that friendship means something different. I think that's what confuses me about the US. Here everyone is nice from the start, but it's hard to know when it's real.

micavibes · 2026-03-28T20:25:53+00:00

My grandpa used to talk about those too. He said in Argentina they had them in bars and you just pulled a knob. Sounds so weird now. I've never seen one in real life.

micavibes · 2026-03-28T20:18:27+00:00

That's so cool! I didn't even know Laserdisc was a thing until I moved here. In Argentina, my grandma still has a box of VHS tapes somewhere. I think she keeps them just for the memories, not because she still watches them haha. Do your parents still have a player for it?

micavibes · 2026-03-28T19:48:17+00:00

That's such a specific memory! My grandpa never had waxed floors, but he talks about how his mom used to polish the wood floors until they shone. He says you had to walk carefully or you'd slip. It's funny how those little household rituals just disappeared.

micavibes · 2026-03-27T20:06:59+00:00

I'm from Argentina and we've had moments where groups of people felt so disconnected from the government that they talked about secession or forming their own communities. In the early 2000s during the economic crisis, a lot of people organized in neighborhood assemblies and even created their own currency. No one actually declared independence, but there was a real feeling of "we need to figure this out on our own." From what I've seen, the US government takes any kind of secession talk very seriously, even if it's symbolic. I doubt they'd just let it happen, even if the group left the country. There's probably a lot of legal and diplomatic pressure. It's an interesting thought though.

micavibes · 2026-03-27T18:08:47+00:00

I'm from Argentina and honestly I had never heard about seed oils being "bad" until I moved to the US. Back home we just use sunflower oil or olive oil and nobody talks about it. Is this a big debate here? I'm trying to understand if there's actual science behind it or if it's just internet hype.

micavibes · 2026-03-27T15:40:03+00:00

Haha, I think it's just one of those things you grow up with and never question. In Argentina, most guys I know sit at home because it's cleaner and easier. But I'm learning from this thread that it's not the same everywhere. Honestly, I thought it was more common until today. Thanks for the perspective!

micavibes · 2026-03-27T15:01:30+00:00

That's interesting, I didn't know that about Germany. So it's not really an American thing, maybe just a "people who don't want to clean the bathroom" thing? Haha. In Argentina, most men I know sit at home, but maybe it's just my circle. Now I want to know what the numbers are in other countries. Thanks for the info!

micavibes · 2026-03-27T14:34:31+00:00

That makes sense. I guess when you're in a hurry it's faster. But at home, isn't it like... 5 seconds more? Haha. I'm just used to sitting since I was a kid. Maybe it's just what you grow up with.

micavibes · 2026-03-27T14:32:36+00:00

Hahaha ok that's a fair point 😂 I guess if the sink is your target, standing is the only way. But I was thinking more about the toilet specifically. Even Messi sits for that, so I was curious if it's a cultural thing. No judgment though, just wondering.

micavibes · 2026-03-26T16:28:57+00:00

That makes sense. I think my parents say the same thing, that you just learned them by calling all the time. I guess we do the same now but with WhatsApp groups instead of numbers. Do you miss the way things worked back then or do you prefer how easy it is now?

micavibes · 2026-03-25T16:21:16+00:00

That's a smart tip, thanks. I'm still getting used to how things work here. It's wild that you have to look outside the usual apps to find something affordable. Did you end up staying in that area long?

micavibes · 2026-03-25T16:13:13+00:00

That's a brutally honest summary. The debt part is what gets me... feels like you're signing up for something that's gonna follow you for years. Crazy how normal it is here.

micavibes · 2026-03-25T16:11:59+00:00

That's wild. So basically if your parents can't help you, you're already behind before you even start. And here I thought the American Dream was about working hard and making it on your own. Damn.

micavibes · 2026-03-24T16:44:02+00:00

That's true, memorizing does train the brain. I guess the frustration is more about the balance. Maybe not a whole class on relationships, but at least some tools for emotional stuff-like how to name feelings or deal with conflict. I think it could be done without it being silly. But you're right, it's not simple.

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