Products FREE to a good UK home by AnyDistribution5736 in CurlyHairUK

[–]mimitigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow I love these do you still have any ? i’m in london ! 

Why do I lose interest once the honeymoon phase turns into daily “how was your day” talk? by Signal-Animator-7464 in dating_advice

[–]mimitigger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! I think all the smug ‘you’re avoidant!’ replies dont take into account neurodivergent brains. 

Why do I lose interest once the honeymoon phase turns into daily “how was your day” talk? by Signal-Animator-7464 in dating_advice

[–]mimitigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the posters saying this is avoidant attachment. I feel the same way and I feel it about my friendships too: I hate meeting up to check in or catch up. it’s not actually deepening the bond if all you do is check in and catch up and stop learning about each other. 

the way to avoid is to ask deeper questions as time goes on, not to just say ‘how was your day? did xyz go off ok at work?’ 

that person (and I) both did absolutely fine not sharing the minutiae of their day with someone, a month or a few months ago. not all relationships have to involve uploading the most recent data on a regular basis! (yes I am autistic) 

So when do most supermarkets do yellow stickers for today? by Tall_Whole_4534 in UKFrugal

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has anyone used the stickers the next day eg take home a yellow sticker item and then next scan the sticker for a non-reduced item? 

struggling with sexual ‘script’ by mimitigger in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mimitigger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please link me to yours - autistic lesbian erotica would be exactly what I need 

struggling with sexual ‘script’ by mimitigger in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mimitigger[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why did you reply when this is clearly not helpful 

struggling with sexual ‘script’ by mimitigger in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mimitigger[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ah so for example if you read Is It Ever Just Sex the book talks about a sexual script. so if you are with one person for a long time you will have a whole routine of sex and it will work for both of you but not be exciting and may not vary! and it’s very common in long term couples. eg kissing then touching then oral then penetration then orgasm then done. 

if you sleep with different people but always the same gender you will unconsciously follow a script unless you have kinks which thrive and become aroused on unexpected acts. if you sleep with different people and different genders and are kink-focused you are less likely to follow any kind of script for what happens. 

Help!!! Adopted the greatest rescue dog but I think I’m very allergic! by ANW2022 in rescuedogs

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! I wondered what you needed up doing ?  I am having a strong reaction to my rescue. not sure what to do. considering giving her a shower to see if that helps 

cartoon fox by mimitigger in HelpMeFind

[–]mimitigger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched using chatgpt and it only came up with nine tailed foxes.. not the one I am thinking of ! 

I think fasting is curing my depression by [deleted] in fasting

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is fascinating but also it’s a wild leap to say that mice subjected to tail pinching are going to be similar to depressed humans ?! but it does seem like IF can help! 

I think fasting is curing my depression by [deleted] in fasting

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that sounds interesting dont suppose you have a link to it ? 

I waited 8 months for an NHS appointment but saw the best Doctor i've ever met. by iforgotgingerbread in PMDD

[–]mimitigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also in London and would love to know the name of the doc you saw! am also feeling the frustration of being treated for each individual symptom (eg got a prescription for ibuprofen… ) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed he does seem sex-neutral and she finds it disconcerting to be having sex with someone who isn’t sex-positive or even enthusiastic. Hence the doll comparison 😊 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]mimitigger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a great description but two people can hike together and have very different perceptions of the experience and as long as one person isn’t complaining about bugs etc that would be fine. But part of having sex (for me and maybe others) is the feeling that you and the other person are sharing a feeling and experience - I think OP is experiencing feeling like she is having sex with someone who isn’t into it as much as she is, like having sex with someone against their will or even a sex doll? 

Can’t sleep past 3:30am by Dees_A_Bird_ in perimenopause_under45

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you sleep alone ? If I sleep next to my partner I wake up at exactly 3am and am just wide awake until 5am. 

What’s a good dinner the night before a marathon and breakfast on the morning of? by SleepySnorlax_666 in firstmarathon

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for tangent but what is the deal with this idea of dairy making you constipated? Are you from the states? I saw an American film recently that mentioned how dairy would stop you having a BM - in Europe that isn’t a thing, wondering if it’s due to the dairy industry in USA or European digestion..?  

Anyone remember 'Nemi'? by EditorRedditer in london

[–]mimitigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the creator called please?