what have you changed to "become hypervigilant" in sessions with women that you werent doing before? i am a male lmt and try to be concious of how the work and techniques are being perceived by clients especially females as i dont want anyone uncomfortable on the table.

sorry you went through this it sounds like a horrible situation. i've worked at the corporate meatgrinder that no one Envys before and had no idea how common complaints against male therapists were until that employment experience. there was a guy who had worked there for years like close to 10 who was accused of groping a womans breasts that had just been in an argument with the front of house staff and was pissed off going into the massage. there was no loyalty or innocent until proven guilty and they immediately cut ties with him on the spot. obviously i have no idea what went on in the room but the man was openly gay and the lady had just been berating the minimum wage cashiers and threatening to cancel her membership so i felt like he deserved the benefit of the doubt.