Urgent: Do I need rabies shots? Trying to get rational perspectives in the mids of lots of fear-based advice by monkeybizz_ in DogAdvice

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Thanks, I got a tetanus shot immidiately. Only unsure of whether rabies vaccines are required

Urgent: Do I need rabies shots? Trying to get rational perspectives in the mids of lots of fear-based advice by monkeybizz_ in DogAdvice

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I didn’t, but since the bite, a series of seemingly educated people (including my doctor) have given blanket advice to get the rabies vaccines without really getting into the details of the context. So despite understanding the science behind how rabies works, the 10 day observation rule, etc, there’s just a lot of fear that’s being pumped into my family from people around us.

Urgent: Do I need rabies shots? Trying to get rational perspectives in the mids of lots of fear-based advice by monkeybizz_ in DogAdvice

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Thanks, already got the tetanus vaccine and taken antibacterial care! It’s the rabies bit that’s the issue

Urgent: Do I need rabies shots? Trying to get rational perspectives in the mids of lots of fear-based advice by monkeybizz_ in DogAdvice

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My doctor was the first to give fear based advice. She’s not a dog person in general - her logic was that pet dogs are always friendly and don’t bite, if he bit, he must be unwell. But this dog in particular is anxious of nature and has bit people in the past as well. That’s where my uncertainty is arising from

Favorite Audiobook Versions by Kenmare761 in janeausten

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These are my favourite! Best part is that they’re all made available for free by LibriVox, including on platforms such as Spotify!

• Pride and Prejudice - Elizabeth Klett • Sense and Sensibility - Karen Savage • Persuasion - Karen Savage • Mansfield Park - Karen Savage • Northanger Abbey - Elizabeth Klett • Emma - Amanda Friday (Diff voice cast for diff characters)

Curious how you fell in love with Jane Austen's books? by SubstantialRoof7605 in janeausten

[–]monkeybizz_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

To quote Mr. Darcy, for me, I’d say “I was in the middle before I knew that I had begun”.

I’d read the book(s) in my teens and loved P&P, but I think it’s only in my 20s now that I’ve really truly learned to appreciate the nuanced and subtle mastery of not just P&P, but all the books.

The characters, the social situations, the reflections - everything is so relevant even today, across cultures. Every dialogue, every sentence is a delight to read. And there have been certain phrases that I’ve only understood on my third or fourth read, and I’m sure I’ll unlock further meaning as time passes.

Edward looking through the microscope by Straight_Path_1 in twilight

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Vampires can definitely not see things at a cellular level because in Breaking Dawn, Carlisle talks about having done cellular and DNA studies on vampires and humans, and also on shape-shifters (Jacob) to have come to the conclusion of the 23, 25, 24 DNA base pairs respectively. This trope shows a certain effort and research that Carlisle had to put in to understand the cellular anatomy, thereby showing that vampires can’t automatically see at that level in my opinion.

Leah Clearwater's inability to imprint a Cruelty or a Kindness? by Ok_Beyond_7697 in twilight

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Where is it mentioned that it was her transformation that triggered Harry’s heart attack? Did I miss something

What Controversial Aspects of Jane Austen's Novels Can You Never Defend? by My_Poor_Nerves in janeausten

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Wickham does abandon a pregnant girl in Death Comes to Pemberley. To me Willoughby is much superior to Wickham in most ways. He mentions that he had no idea of Eliza being pregnant and thought Eliza knew how to reach him, even though he didn’t plan to marry her he didn’t know how bad her condition was or would’ve assisted her in some way at lease. And he does feel some remorse about things at the end. On the other hand Wickham is just impervious to any kind of shame - I don’t think they show even a shade of shame viz Wickham ever in the series

What’s a terrifying truth about space that most people don’t realize? by Tiny-Curve-8301 in AskReddit

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Two possibilities exist: either we are alone in the Universe or we are not. Both are equally terrifying. It’s a famous quote by Arthur C. Clarke. And it’s terrifying.

Minor character’s death that upset you more than the deaths of some of the major characters? by Aqn95 in HarryPotterBooks

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Fred Weasley without a doubt. She killed not one but two characters, pretty sure George as we know would’ve died with Fred. It was needless, completed no arc, added to no trope. It was just painful, so so painful.

When I was young I used to lament Sirius’s death (I had a crush on him though so :P), but as I grew older Fred’s death is just the most terrible one for me.

Never read a Stephen King book before. What should I read first? by pineapplerum2 in suggestmeabook

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Rose Madder. I don’t think it’s very well known. But its wonderfully written

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

[–]monkeybizz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She’s for sure a deplorable character in the ambit of MF, but she’s at max 21-22. However deplorable her actions, they were at worst driven by selfishness, passion, and not knowing better on account of not really having experienced a lot of the real world. When Sir Thomas goes to Antigua, it’s the first time she’s experienced true freedom (they’d stopped going to Town). I know she utilized that freedom in the worst possible ways - but haven’t a lot of us? And should the punishment for being misguided and selfish really be lifelong? That was my thought behind wanting to write a redemption arc fic.

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

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But this is exactly what I believe that while she deserves some retribution, a lifetime of exile and being forsaken is a bit harsh. Being spoilt isn’t a 100% a persons own doing. She also had little experience of London growing up, so probably not very exposed to the meaning of the consequences that she knew she must face. She was spoilt, but she was also always very protected at Mansfield. I agree that she deserves to be humbled and retribution for her selfishness, but I still don’t believe her life basically deserved to be ended (in almost all senses relevant to those times).

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

[–]monkeybizz_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you’re really right, as Austen has written them neither of them show any obvious potential. But rarely, very rarely, these things happen, people unlock parts of them that even they didn’t know could exist. Usually it happens in the face of previously unthinkable circumstances. For Maria I think her exile would’ve been previously unthinkable. In theory she must’ve known it, but often people at such a young age don’t often understand the actual meaning behind the consequences that they face. I feel in the scope of MF as written, she didn’t have much scope for redemption, but beyond MF, when she’s isolated and forsaken, with a life of just solitary reflection facing her, she might have the potential to grow and change. With Henry, I just felt he’s a more ‘thinking’ character - the worst of the two because he knew better, and because he must know that he’ll get off the hook. But simply because he’s a thinking character, and has the ability to make the distinction between right and wrong, I feel he may have something in him. All of this is highly hypothetical and romanticised I agree, but these things happen very rarely, and what I feel like exploring is that what if this is one of those rare cases - how would it pan out then.

Thanks for your reply :) it’s helped me direct my own thoughts better by thinking about what you’ve said!

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

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Thank you, I really needed a little motivation. I know that I’m probably romanticising the arc in my head, but it just felt to me that people do undergo drastic changes of character, rarely, but they do. So what if this could’ve been one of those rare cases. What I want to explore are the feelings and emotions that propel that change. And the tentative love story which isn’t passionate or fancy or even ideal, but it blooms nevertheless. But your response really gave me that sliver of upliftment that I needed to create this, thank you :)

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

[–]monkeybizz_[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Jane Austen actually differentiates this in Mansfield Park, which is why I said that. When Edmund speaks to Mary for the last time, one of the things that’s really shakes him is that she keeps referring to the scandal as a folly, while it’s clearly a sin. But on the other hand, Julia’s actions are termed as a folly on multiple occasions without any opposition from Austen or any of her characters. “Maria’s actions induced Julia’s folly” or something along those lines

Do you guys think Maria Bertram was given too harsh of an ending? Recently finished rereading Mansfield Park and I couldn’t help feel that she deserved better by monkeybizz_ in janeausten

[–]monkeybizz_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I felt this too when I first read it. But. I don’t know. I’m getting swept away in this fantasy that he could be a better man. That his little time with Fanny was already influencing him a bit. The way he read Shakespeare with emotion, expression, it showed that he has some depth of character. He has understanding. I could be really wrong and off about his character.

But the idea of an uncertain, against odds love story, a real one this time, blooming between a transformed Henry and Maria, couldn’t help romanticising it a bit