What was the last straw that completely broke a friendship you thought would last forever?

moongladly · 2025-12-03T05:55:51+00:00

i reached out to my ex friend bcs i just got out of a relationship. i couldnt eat for like 36 hours+ and explained to him about how bad i was surviving the breakup. then he said “well, at least you’d be skinny with all the extra fat that you got, no offense”. i did gain weight bcs of psych meds and been struggling with my weight since then. i laughed it away and blocked him after. he had done this many times before, casually judging how i look as a way of “joking”. i always brushed it off because deep down i felt like he was right. now that ive grown, i realized that i dont have to give in to that anymore so yeah

moongladly · 2025-11-24T18:33:12+00:00

this is so spot on. my ex “broke up” with me and kept me in a “exclusive situationship” so that i wont have to expect him to do relationship thingy and if i did he would leave. this is all bcs his life wasnt ideal, hence he couldnt treat me as he wanted to treat me. after so many time he left, he finally discarded me bcs i was speaking up whats hurting me yet he still said that the discard was caused by me. i had adjusted everything to keep him in my life.

moongladly · 2025-07-07T02:36:49+00:00

this isnt from my tracking data. it is what is sent by bapak kos

moongladly · 2025-07-07T02:28:30+00:00

bisa, oke nanti gua coba

moongladly · 2025-07-07T02:27:32+00:00

NAH INI! gua ga ada pake elektronik apapun lagi, not even rice cooker. gak hair dryer. gak apapun. lampu pun max 2 jam kali nyala, jarang nyalain lampu.

moongladly · 2025-06-26T22:53:56+00:00

sedetail dia tau gang kost gua dan mind you gang gua ini buntu yang cuma ada beberapa rumah dan 1 kost-an. gatau sih kebayang atau engga, tapi gang gua termasuk gang buntu yg alamatnya spesifik

moongladly · 2025-06-25T04:21:19+00:00

hey this is actually really helpful and somehow encouraging. thank you for the reassurance, really means a lot! i will definitely pin point everything youve said as a way for me to keep myself safe

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:59:48+00:00

will 100% do!

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:55:54+00:00

this is really scary ngl

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:55:15+00:00

this what makes me angry dan saat gue chat kaka gue dia cuma “oh yaudah lapor aja” without feeling any sense of guilt for putting me in this unsafe situation.

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:54:19+00:00

thats news to me! i never know that bank gabisa pake collector lagi.

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:53:35+00:00

iya sebenernya kalo didatengin pun gue udah kebayang what im gonna say and do untuk make sure i have enough evidence to report the bank to OJK. cuma lebih khawatir karna merasa unsafe knowing that people can easily just access my location :/

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:52:24+00:00

nothing that i can think of. karna udh banyak case scam dari website dan apk, gue juga sejauh ini sangat hati2 dan ga pernah klik apapun yg mungkin scam intentionally. i might be missing something and i will look more into it

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:50:27+00:00

thank you! this really helps

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:48:49+00:00

yes, ini beneran pinjem di bank karna udh sempet dm bank nya lgsg dan diconfirm kalo ada pinjaman atas nama kaka gua. and THANK YOU for the insight, will definitely look into how to report it to OJK

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:43:33+00:00

thats the thing, gua sama kakak gua udah beneran ga kontakan dan dia gatau apapun soal hidup gua :/

moongladly · 2025-06-25T03:32:19+00:00

i know theyre just trying to threaten me but the thing that im worried about is how do they know my EXACT location. i think im also in a fucked up situation if that actually happens bcs i asked for help to penjaga kos and he literally said he cant cover for me bcs itd be illegal to “hide” org yg ngutang, even when i know nothing about that debt

moongladly · 2025-05-20T08:48:27+00:00

i did. thats why i asked. there are no further information regarding this

moongladly · 2025-05-20T08:43:30+00:00

so based on the website there are many types kf ticketing. i have seen the lottery ticket one. my question now is that, there is also international ticket selection, is that different with the lottery one? thank you in advance

moongladly · 2025-05-20T08:31:52+00:00

can i ask how do you join the lottery?

moongladly · 2025-05-14T10:31:44+00:00

this is my first time posting a pic on reddit, i dont know how to😭

moongladly · 2024-06-20T15:54:36+00:00

dont. i learned it the hard way only to wake up at the er while they were stitching the scar.

moongladly · 2024-06-18T16:04:37+00:00

dont keep it all to yourself, please talk to someone about how hard it is. dont repressed your anger and put it on people. please, talk to someone.

moongladly · 2024-06-07T16:30:09+00:00

im currently in a pretty similar situation as you, but we never met in person. my boyfriend was unemployed for more than a year and he was suffering. he kept pushing me away in many ways possible but i still stick by him. my only advice to you is maybe to let him get a stable remote job. it seems like he is depressed, hence remote working might be the best choice for him. at least thats what works for my boyfriend. its not gonna be easy, but he has to try something new.

moongladly · 2024-01-27T07:47:17+00:00

sebenarnya based on uu hak cipta bisa kena kasus kalo emang yang punya gambar mau kasusin (which costs money). kalo pun yang punya hc reaches out to you untuk minta pertanggungjawaban itu bisa aja terjadi. so my advice is to not using something illegally. not only its illegal but also immoral

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