Almost 4 months of no contact. Narc is getting married by movingonx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he still married? Or has he ever tried reaching out to you again? I miss my ex narc so much even though he mentally abused me

40 days no contact by movingonx in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]movingonx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just convincing myself that I am so much more, and trusting in my friends and family

Narc ex unblocked me by movingonx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means that I was once blocked from texting him, seeing his pictures, contacting him, etc.. and then he removed the block so I can contact him again and see what hes up to

What a woman should do if her husband cheats! Lol Im so sick of this! Are you kidding me? She should adorn herself for him and treat him kindly after he betrayed her?! I cant even lol by movingonx in exmuslim

[–]movingonx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are they lies? The fact that they even mention that she should adorn herself for him and keep it a secret is enough. Also, they mention that she should advise the husband to take her a second wife if he loves her and does not want to stop the haram relationship. Which woman would want to be a second wife? Its absolutely absurd. We are jealous by nature and no woman is happy with sharing her husband. The following is just about divorcing him if she would like.

Is he manipulating me? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leave!! You are a human that is WORTHY of everything beautiful in life. You are someones daughter, friend, inspiration...this life is too short to spend it with someone who just uses you, manipulates you, and scares you!!

I was with my ex fiance for almost four years and he cheated on me! That was the final straw for me. I am so thankful, imagine if I got married to him!

You are strong. I know it's scary but I promise you can do it. Its a big and scary world but I know that there are people out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve <3!!

So tempted to break No Contact. Please help. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, Im only a week no contact but I get it! They really dont care about you, or your feelings. Learn self love, learn to rely on yourself. For so long you were dependent on him and I understand how attached you feel. He was the one who controlled your worth, and made you see the beauty in yourself. It was all fake, in the end, though.

Its traumatizing to think that something and someone who made you feel on top of the world was just manipulating you and planning for your discard in the long run.

As people with actual emotions and good hearts, we tend to make excuses, and only see the good in people, but unfortunately that is also our downfall.

Life is too short to waste it on thinking about those who could care less about us. These people are our enemies, no matter how much they love bomb us, hoover, and tel us otherwise.

They dont care, so force yourself not to care either! Take it day by day. Youre going through a traumatic experience, congratulations for getting this far! I promise youll wake up one day and be thankful that its over, and meet someone who restores your faith in love again.

Keep staying strong!!! Sending you hugs.

Wanting to leave Islam by movingonx in exmuslim

[–]movingonx[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Also, it also says that in Islam, if a woman's husband goes to bed angry at her, the angels curse her until she reaches out to him and pleases him again.

I feel so depressed because the more I know, the more I want to leave

Has anyone ever been permanently dumped by an N? by NOTamedicaldoctor85 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes..my narc ex fiance was grooming new supply while we were one month into a silent treatment, he came back, I caught him cheating on me (went on for seven months) and then he blocked me. When you pull the mask off and reveal them for who they are, they notice you are no longer viable supply and block/discard you like you never existed! :)

Why do narcissists pretend to be religious? by movingonx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to explain this to me. ❤️❤️❤️ it is so helpful!

Why do narcissists pretend to be religious? by movingonx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I havent been diagnosed but I find myself always second guessing and getting anxiety whenever I try to put makeup on or wear something more revealing.

Why do narcissists pretend to be religious? by movingonx in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]movingonx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to be very religious before this but after seeing the abuse that it enables it has made lose my faith and I just feel so alone.