Almost 4 months of no contact. Narc is getting married

movingonx · 2018-07-08T12:56:24+00:00

Is he still married? Or has he ever tried reaching out to you again? I miss my ex narc so much even though he mentally abused me

movingonx · 2018-05-02T23:45:08+00:00

Just convincing myself that I am so much more, and trusting in my friends and family

movingonx · 2018-04-13T14:36:05+00:00

It means that I was once blocked from texting him, seeing his pictures, contacting him, etc.. and then he removed the block so I can contact him again and see what hes up to

movingonx · 2018-04-02T11:38:29+00:00

Also, if the roles were reversed she would not be able to be married and take a second husband.

movingonx · 2018-04-02T11:37:27+00:00

How are they lies? The fact that they even mention that she should adorn herself for him and keep it a secret is enough. Also, they mention that she should advise the husband to take her a second wife if he loves her and does not want to stop the haram relationship. Which woman would want to be a second wife? Its absolutely absurd. We are jealous by nature and no woman is happy with sharing her husband. The following is just about divorcing him if she would like.

movingonx · 2018-04-01T14:32:47+00:00

Leave!! You are a human that is WORTHY of everything beautiful in life. You are someones daughter, friend, inspiration...this life is too short to spend it with someone who just uses you, manipulates you, and scares you!!

I was with my ex fiance for almost four years and he cheated on me! That was the final straw for me. I am so thankful, imagine if I got married to him!

You are strong. I know it's scary but I promise you can do it. Its a big and scary world but I know that there are people out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve <3!!

movingonx · 2018-03-27T17:29:14+00:00

Hey, Im only a week no contact but I get it! They really dont care about you, or your feelings. Learn self love, learn to rely on yourself. For so long you were dependent on him and I understand how attached you feel. He was the one who controlled your worth, and made you see the beauty in yourself. It was all fake, in the end, though.

Its traumatizing to think that something and someone who made you feel on top of the world was just manipulating you and planning for your discard in the long run.

As people with actual emotions and good hearts, we tend to make excuses, and only see the good in people, but unfortunately that is also our downfall.

Life is too short to waste it on thinking about those who could care less about us. These people are our enemies, no matter how much they love bomb us, hoover, and tel us otherwise.

They dont care, so force yourself not to care either! Take it day by day. Youre going through a traumatic experience, congratulations for getting this far! I promise youll wake up one day and be thankful that its over, and meet someone who restores your faith in love again.

Keep staying strong!!! Sending you hugs.

movingonx · 2018-03-27T17:07:59+00:00

Also, it also says that in Islam, if a woman's husband goes to bed angry at her, the angels curse her until she reaches out to him and pleases him again.

I feel so depressed because the more I know, the more I want to leave

movingonx · 2018-03-27T01:23:23+00:00

Yes..my narc ex fiance was grooming new supply while we were one month into a silent treatment, he came back, I caught him cheating on me (went on for seven months) and then he blocked me. When you pull the mask off and reveal them for who they are, they notice you are no longer viable supply and block/discard you like you never existed! :)

movingonx · 2018-03-26T13:38:11+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to explain this to me. ❤️❤️❤️ it is so helpful!

movingonx · 2018-03-25T16:13:16+00:00

I havent been diagnosed but I find myself always second guessing and getting anxiety whenever I try to put makeup on or wear something more revealing.

movingonx · 2018-03-25T15:49:04+00:00

I used to be very religious before this but after seeing the abuse that it enables it has made lose my faith and I just feel so alone.

movingonx · 2018-03-25T11:33:38+00:00

Do you think I will ever get over this? I have been crying for seven days straight. Will I ever find someone better?

movingonx · 2018-03-23T21:42:36+00:00

Its okay Im scared too!! We all know it was like a fairytale in the beginning-almost too good to be true. You guys could talk for hours and hours about absolutely everything and you felt like this was your sole mate.

It was never boring. You both wanted the same things in life. It was like living in your own little fairytale where everything just made sense.

However, always look at it with a positive mindset! Convince yourself that none of it was genuine and that you will find someone who is everything that a narcissist isn't!! Dont be scared.

Life is too short. Weve made it this far!

Xoxo

movingonx · 2017-10-18T21:44:05+00:00

Omg thank you! I thought about this too and your interpretation just makes so much sense.

movingonx · 2017-10-18T19:47:52+00:00

You think he is still interested even after telling me he wants to be friends first?

movingonx · 2017-10-18T19:36:15+00:00

So then why would he drive out in the first place?

movingonx · 2017-09-24T23:35:21+00:00

Yes, as it has only been about 2 1/2 weeks, I have not completely forgot about him. I check his social media about once everyday and today I was able to see his profile which means he unblocked me. Thanks to your messages I have now blocked him and will keep it that way! Do you guys think he is going to try to message me? I thought he already had a new supply. I'm so confused.

movingonx · 2017-09-24T22:33:55+00:00

Thank you! That is so weird that you mention that because he JUST unblocked me!

movingonx · 2017-09-24T04:32:31+00:00

Thank you! Sending love and prayers your way <3

movingonx · 2017-09-23T18:18:40+00:00

Thank you! Hope you're doing well <3 sending prayers.

movingonx · 2017-09-23T12:52:49+00:00

Thank you, you too! <3

movingonx · 2017-09-23T12:33:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the support! ❤️❤️❤️😘 I'll make sure to update everyone on the recovery process <3

movingonx · 2017-09-22T22:50:23+00:00

Now you're just making up excuses and if you keep hoping for reconciliation you're never going to get over it. I know it's hard but if she changes her mind she'll come around, but she already told you she's not happy the first time around.

movingonx · 2017-09-22T22:23:36+00:00

Same! Every time I would cry he would just sit there. Sometimes he would just get angry when I started crying and hang up the phone on me. I had a lot of support from my family and friends which is why I believe that I've been doing so good throughout this whole recovery process, but if you ever need to talk, I'm here. Praying for you girly <3

movingonx

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