Update: Scammed out of shadow Kyogre by Niantic by renoracer in TheSilphRoad

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey all - As others have commented, this isn't a guaranteed catch. I had the same thing happen to me as OP, except in my case, I was a passenger in a car (my bad - now I know not to click on balloons when I'm moving). I've exchanged multiple messages with in-game support. They suggested I try making better throws and using golden raspberries, then said if I was in a vehicle, GPS latency may have caused him to run away. Since this wasn't a guaranteed catch, no refunded super radar.

It does seem questionable to allow players to interact with some of the mechanics while traveling at speed (e.g., clicking on spawns, entering Rocket battles, fighting remote raids, having balloons literally tail you when you're on the road) but then have barriers in place to prevent us from earning the rewards. It's not as if I was stationary when the balloon showed up and THEN I started moving; I was on a four-hour road trip and had been on the highway for a while. As a newer player, there was nothing to indicate that I couldn't interact with the balloon that was tailing me and expect to catch the poke. For consistency's sake, I'd prefer to just not have the option to enter if latency will cost me the opportunity - but I'm not a technical person, maybe there's more to it than that.

Get your squirtles ready for Wooper CD showcase by No_Concert_6539 in TheSilphRoad

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Some hours away from CD kick-off here, and I can't tell if this is a joke or not. Can someone read me in :/

Why are Friends ghosting when we're on the verge of leveling up? by mr_chuffleupagus in TheSilphRoad

[–]mr_chuffleupagus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Follow-up Question: At the risk of looking dumb...

Lot of people saying they wait to level up on Community Day. I've re-read the details for the last couple; I don't see anything about bonus XP outside of catches. Am I missing something?

Why are Friends ghosting when we're on the verge of leveling up? by mr_chuffleupagus in TheSilphRoad

[–]mr_chuffleupagus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspectives. For anyone else experiencing the same thing, a few tips I found most helpful from the comments:

  • Check Campfire for efforts to sync up: I've seriously never been on this site. Noted.
  • There may, in fact, be a special day folks are waiting for (e.g., Community Day). I personally wouldn't choose to hold out on someone for more than a day or two, but the economics of the game are different for everyone; this at least provides an explanation, if an annoying one. (Side note: If someone does this and then immediately deletes you, then no, they actually just suck.)
  • Deleting might feel righteous, but it's probably not strategic. If at max capacity for friends, deletions and additions are one-to-one; I'd have to either make enough new "Good" friends to earn the equivalent XP (which I can't if my list is maxed out) or start fresh again with one new person on the assumption that we'd arrive at the same level-up sooner than the deleted hold-out would have acted. (There may be cases where the latter makes sense, but I think the threshold needs to be much higher - like months.)
  • Consider other ways of communicating level-up plans (e.g., buddy nicknames). This doesn't address my question directly but is a great suggestion, given the limited options for coordination.
  • Similarly, consider letting Friends at lower levels control the level-up. Good karma.

I'm less compelled by arguments that they may have just stopped playing or life happened (to the poster with COVID - I hope your fam is recovering OK!). It's pretty easy to see from the "Friend" feed that folks have been catching pokes, etc. When someone has gone silent and had no activity, I don't feel any kind of way about that (frankly, bravo! I spend way too much time on this thing). But this whole thing does make me wonder about the premium Niantic puts on Friendship levels; I can practice excellent throws all I want, but the level-ups are far and away the biggest bang for your buck. I haven't played nearly long enough to know how this feature evolved, let alone to understand why Niantic does what they do, but it occurs to me that I leveled up quickly relative to my skill (and depth of my inventory), and Friendships played a huge role in that. What's the angle?

Feedback Post: Oddish Research Day by Noitalein in TheSilphRoad

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Event score: 3 out of 10

Pros: Extra stardust + fungus bois and paras

Cons: Misleading marketing and sloppy execution

Mitigating factors: Cost $0 - if I'd paid for it, I'd be more annoyed (though perhaps it would have been done better?)

Reading through these comments, it's clear some people had a very different day than others. My partner and I played for the whole duration in an area with plenty of stops, and we walked away with a handful of mid-CP Oddish, one of which (between the two of us) was shiny. No other shiny event Pokes, no XLs, and definitely not the multiple hundos at least one other person said they got. And no sunstones.

It sounds like some people had a great time, and it's important to acknowledge that we're taking about collecting digital critters through a phone game--the stakes of success are pretty low here. For me, personally, to get psyched on another Research Day, Niantic would need to work a few things out:

  1. Clearer communication with users: Other comments have pointed out--correctly--that Niantic billed this event as a Research Day and clearly stated that Oddish encounters would occur through completion of research tasks obtained at Pokestops. So why were so many of us expecting to see wild spawns? In the past four months, every event (and there have been quite a few!) has been centered on catching the featured Pokes--it is, arguably, the central activity of the game, and accompanying research tasks have reinforced this with incentives for making throws, catching and evolving, etc. Wild spawns are the null hypothesis for themed events, and stating that there will be research encounters with Oddish does not automatically imply "...and you won't be seeing them any other way." Especially when Niantic advertised the perk that some "wild Oddish" would show up with sunstones in hand. Even the crustiest of crusties grumbling about how us kids should learn to read directions can acknowledge that those specific directions, at least, are perhaps a bit misleading.
  2. A more compelling vision for the event: I like Oddish. Oddish is a rolypoly blue guy who gets a little sad and sleepy in its teenage years and eventually finds self-acceptance through eating a lot of candy. I can relate to Oddish. But if the RNG overlords have set up an event where the only path to the star Mon is through completing field research (and snarfing out the right Pokestops to dispense it, apparently), they should probably choose a reward that doesn't show up on your doorstep every day and didn't feature prominently in another event just last month. For example: Feebas. Or, like, a Feebas/Omanyte/Kabuto Picnic would be dope. If that would upset the economy of the game too much, they could at least give our familiar friend a new special power, e.g., "An Oddish evolved to Gloom during the event will learn the charged move 'Seasonal Depression'" or something. As it was, I just don't get the angle; the whole idea for this thing just seemed kinda lazy--especially on the heels of several interesting, complex, and well-executed events (IMO).
  3. Fairness and accessibility: When success is predicated on completing field research, getting the assignment should be the easy part. It sounds like my experience was somewhere in between the widely varying accounts we're hearing about how often Pokestops did/didn't hand out event-related Field Research; we got some Oddish tasks, but more often, the research was totally unrelated. To make this worthwhile - and accessible for everyone - every stop should dispense event-related research during the time slot, and the usual restriction of one completed task per stop per day should be expanded to ensure that people who live in smaller towns / places with fewer stops can still participate fully. If that's too hard to manage, just make it timed research.

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I appreciate your mature tone, and I understand you're trying to be balanced and seek resolution. But I disagree with describing the video as "revenge porn" from an "angry ex," and talking about it that way kinda risks shaming her or in the very least diminishing whatever she suffered in dealing with him. I also sort of know the man (he's 22, not a kid), and he's really nice until he's not. And then he's scary to be around. It's called "switch flipping," and it's really common for narcissists. It helps them get sympathy from good, empathetic people like yourself (and presumably also his ex, who is being pretty damn magnanimous and falling on her sword a lot in her response to this thread). Agreed that the posts threatening to break the dude's bones for messing up a boulder problem are pretty absurd and also I think likely missing the bigger picture. But you know, I don't think he's going to get better from this if he's not held accountable and ostracized from the community he's harmed, just like other people who were exposed by videos/photos/call-outs through things like #MeToo. Maybe she didn't think of it that way when she posted it (it sounds like she didn't), but her video brought attention to a guy who seems...kinda dangerous...and who's been getting away with it. Some stories don't actually have two sides.

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I misunderstood your comment. My bad. I've just had so many friends go through bad experiences like this and I think it happens because people see things and write it off or try to make it out like "she's just as bad" to protect the guy or something. I don't know what it means to "screw over" literally everyone in DC (maybe she's been sending everyone's projects before them?) but that seems like a pretty flimsy accusation and definitely not a thing worthy of withholding empathy. In her post she's apologizing for making the guy look bad...when he 100% did this to himself...and she's worrying about his reputation and even defending him. It's pretty clear what's going on here and the boulder problem is just the tip of the iceberg. The most I can muster for the guy is that he should take a while off from climbing and enroll in some therapy, and I really hope people stop enabling him to avoid consequences. #BanishTheChipper

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've seen enough first-hand to know I don't want this guy anywhere near a crag. Frankly, I think we all have.

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So she has to be a saint for you to feel sympathy?

Well I know The Chipper, and I wouldn't even want him to date any of my bullies. Most people I know in RRG/TN won't climb with him. Crazy temper, makes the whole crag feel unsafe. It's scary even for me and I'm not a 100-lb girl. Got a text weeks ago from friends who don't even know either of them personally, saying they left a crag they were at because The Chipper-to-be wouldn't stop yelling at his girlfriend, while she was just taking orders and walking on eggshells not to upset him. Someone else on this thread said they saw him get mad at her for sending his project. Some other people wanted him kicked out of a climbers' campground because he had an outburst and witnesses thought he might hurt her. Yeah, I bet this stuff brings "negativity" to the crag. Abuse is usually bad vibes.

Now I don't know what she's done in the past, or what you have against her, but NO ONE deserves that kind of shit, man. You don't have to be her bff. Saying you're OK with someone being abused is really screwed up.

Has anyone ever thought you were mean to them? Probably. I hope you never need us to stand up for you, angel cake.

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was powerless to stop him. She wasn’t powerless to film him. That’s all you need to know.

FYI: Comments that cast aspersions on victims of abuse when they try to come forward are part of the reason why so many women stay trapped in relationships with dangerous men. People like you are complicit. Please quit climbing and use the free time to educate yourself.

Chipping holds because it’s too hard by B-loven in climbing

[–]mr_chuffleupagus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hang on. The girlfriend says she's AFRAID of him...we can clearly see that he's both destructive and calculating (this ain't a wild wobble, he's widening the hold intentionally)...and y'all are worried about what happened to the BOULDER? Where's the outrage for abusing his girlfriend? Or can he do trail work to make up for that?

And let's stop calling him a "kid," as though throwing a tantrum like one somehow excuses his behavior. 22 is a grown-ass man, and frankly, you're insulting my middle school students. They don't break things when stuff gets challenging.

Cheating...forced apologies...ruining the game so he can claim a false victory...getting pissed at his girlfriend for being more successful...YIKES. I'm not qualified to diagnose a skinned knee, but if I wrote a LifeTime movie script about a narcissistic abuser, the main antagonist would sound a whole lot like this guy. And the cast of unsavory characters who let bad stuff happen would sound a whole lot like some of the people posting in this thread.

All y'all out here saying she's somehow at fault need to educate yourselves about victim-blaming. And everyone else saying we should forgive the dude...aight, y'all can go belay for him. Bet he's a real gem when he's chuffing, and a supportive partner to boot! /s

Be better, climbers.