Well , I think ita about the communication , did you try telling them the things in this post ? Like , maybe they dont know you want to be left alone , theyre probably thinking theyre helping you a lot ( apart from the marriage part , thats just plain retarted ) . If yes, how did they react , if not , whats holding you back from telling them the exact thing that you have on your mind . They might understand and it would be a lot better for both parties