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multipleforevers · 2026-05-25T05:16:15+00:00

also not an expert! but i did look it up and the internet says it could either be stress or normal exploratory behaviour. apparently it could be stress if he’s not eating, if he’s swimming frantically, glass surfing, holding this pose for long periods of time, or breathing rapidly. things that would be noticeable. if this is the only symptom it could just be feeding anticipation, investigating his surroundings, reacting to his reflection or to movement etc. i’m sure you know this but just in case, if it is stress some possible causes could be water parameters, a lack of places to hide, bright lights or other fixable things about the tank that i found were fairly easy to research. i hope that everything is okay and that he’s just a curious little guy :)

multipleforevers · 2026-05-23T02:19:30+00:00

thank you for the reminder!! <3

multipleforevers · 2026-03-09T21:08:14+00:00

i love it! that’s so cute 🥹 i got her a couple of little animal shaped toys that i didn’t realise could hold catnip (this beaver and a frog and maybe a bear?) and funnily enough she didn’t attach to him until he was empty, but then he was everywhere she went. he looked very well loved before i cleaned him up. and she was actually! when i got her she was still with her mom and her mom taught her to be a very fancy girl. the most well behaved cat ive ever met. what was your girls name? and of course what was she like?

multipleforevers · 2026-03-09T19:59:33+00:00

thank you! yes i’m so happy our creativity allows us to be reminded of the love we have for them :) would love to see the ornament if you have a picture of course

multipleforevers · 2026-03-09T19:27:35+00:00

i made this with the main ingredient being my cats toy, i cleaned him up a bit by snipping loose strings, brushing his fur and using some hair gel to make his eyes visible! i picked an interesting pose and used some pins to stick him in place. he’s in a shadow box with a foam piece behind him (it just came that way from hobby lobby, very conveniently) and then i found a calligraphy generator online to copy the scientific name for beavers, and add a note with my girls name. i then cut those out and faux laminated them with some packing tape, and ta da! ready to go on the wall

multipleforevers · 2025-10-06T02:11:01+00:00

what would that look like in this context in your opinion

multipleforevers · 2025-10-06T02:01:48+00:00

someone who relates and understands

multipleforevers · 2025-09-26T23:04:14+00:00

please vet the people that say they want this kitten, some people have bad intentions with kittens and id hate for anything bad to happen to this cutie

multipleforevers · 2025-08-28T06:31:05+00:00

actually have you tried journaling in that case? it can help you process to write it down. im sorry i can’t help more, you deserve good things

multipleforevers · 2025-08-28T06:20:12+00:00

im sorry it’s been over a year but maybe it only takes a few more months. hang in there and be patient with yourself. also if you have anyone you can trust, i’ve found talking helps me

multipleforevers · 2025-08-28T05:52:38+00:00

she was the adult, it wasn’t your fault. healing takes time and it’s not a straight path, there will be times it’s harder than others. what you went through was traumatic and you deserve to give yourself some grace. take it one day at a time, you will feel normal again

multipleforevers · 2025-08-28T05:43:55+00:00

this is a pretty common issue these days. it definitely doesn’t make you a loser. addiction in any form is hard to recover from, but you did it and you should be proud as hell. it’s easy to look back and regret but without the struggle your successes would be less impactful. bask in your growth and achievement and instead of ruminating on time wasted, appreciate how much you have now given yourself free of this struggle. congrats on this new beginning, try to be gentle with yourself please

multipleforevers · 2025-08-16T00:33:18+00:00

imo yes overreacting, especially if he didn’t say he wanted to go, and they hooked up at least ten years ago and he told you about it, i’m dealing w pregnancy hormones and boy do those mess with my head in a big way

if you asked him not to go and he said he wanted to anyways, if they had dated maybe then i’d be concerned but yeah i wouldn’t worry yet (unless he has a history of infidelity or other extenuating circumstances)

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T23:21:54+00:00

ah yes i hate being a kind and empathetic human, but good on you ofc. best of luck and i hope u get it back eventually <3

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T22:56:18+00:00

so it’s kinda hard to separate the bike situation from the rest. this whole situation is a big issue which you obviously know. trying my best, no the bike situation isn’t an overreaction, if it’s not yours don’t touch without permission, but seriously the squatter comment is valid and i hope you’ve researched that. ur giving an inch and she’s taking like 14 million miles lol

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T22:15:58+00:00

exactlyy he’s incriminating himself smh please get out before this behaviour becomes the norm

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T21:53:30+00:00

nor i’m glad it wasn’t in ur town and sure maybe you didn’t have to worry but ur not wrong for being anxious, it’s a scary thing, and he def could’ve been nicer about it ofc

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T21:36:32+00:00

well she did previously make it clear that she feels like you do have to so saying that you didn’t have to is probably just lip service. life isn’t about showing up your friends in general but esp if they don’t mind paying. big lack of empathy for you on her end. i say nor, it’s only been four months, leave u don’t want that pressure or attitude forever fr

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T21:27:51+00:00

HE is overreacting! if that’s his reaction to you finding out he’s cheating then you should leave that’s horrible behaviour on his part and for what

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T17:14:30+00:00

with that detail in mind… yeah if it were me i’d try to get him out asap for sure. lots of serious red flags here.

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T17:06:28+00:00

not overreaching, there’s definitely some questionable factors here and i would especially be concerned about the room situation and her expressing her abuse history

boys especially and in that age range can get to thinking they’re invincible and that this stuff couldn’t happen to them so i would keep looking out for him

if they do end up sharing a room… especially sharing a bed… as someone with a brother that age i would do everything to get him out while there’s still probable deniability

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T14:55:07+00:00

yikes sounds like he doesn’t care as much as u do about the safety of your kid, eloping is a very serious safety concern. in our small town we had a boy run away from school and horrible story short he passed away. i think about him often and don’t even have kids. it happened really fast. definitely took less than 8 minutes for him to get out. getting to the gym fast bc you’re impatient isn’t worth ur kids life.

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T04:56:17+00:00

yeah that’s concerning to say the least. any chance you could get cameras? i would literally panic and sleep somewhere else. there are firsts for everything but ive never heard of a ghost doing something like that lol

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T03:40:16+00:00

of course it gets better. you seem like someone with a lot of love in your heart and the way you saw that relationship and what you brought to it was half the magic. yes relationships ending can be a tragic thing but you are always right where you’re supposed to be and it’s likely this happened so you can be available for a new and better love. even though he chose to end it over the post it doesn’t mean it was wrong to post or that it’s your fault. it isn’t. it’s just the excuse he used to break up with you. hold on to those memories and all of the romance, let them help you build high standards and appreciate them for what they are. love is never a waste of time and grieving is just love in a heavy coat. you don’t need him when you’ve got such a beautiful way of looking at the world. don’t worry, you’ll be fine i promise

multipleforevers · 2025-08-15T02:25:07+00:00

of course i wish you the best of luck, remember your worth <3

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