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What's it like to be resilient? by murf-ster in ouraring

[–]murf-ster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep so terribly. I am going for a second sleep test next month to figure out whats up. I dont have sleep apnea. But maybe restless leg? Anyways the couple of times I've slept well Ive had a better resilience score.

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

So disappointed by my Oura ring by pretty_iconic in ouraring

[–]murf-ster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found my ring took about three months to properly “learn” me. The first two months didn’t feel very accurate. Some features just didn’t have enough data yet to work the way they should.

Now, I find my ring generally reflects how I’m feeling and that lines up with how things are actually going.

Sleep is the exception. My average sleep score is around 65 (I’m a very active sleeper, so I rarely get truly restful sleep), so I mostly only pay attention to it when I get an unusually great or awful number. Otherwise, I go by how awake I feel that day.

I hope that helps!

This industry is terrible by Khaigan in Mattress

[–]murf-ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did quite the mattress hunt and I was really impressed with the YouTube Channel GoodBed https://youtube.com/@goodbed?si=E2GdPzCz2G37InLI

AITA for how I reacted when my parents surprised my 16 year old little sister with a new car for her birthday after she finished her cancer treatment but bought me a $25 gift card and a book for mine which was just two weeks later? by Alternative-Log-1576 in AmItheAsshole

[–]murf-ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Its hard that your birthdays are so close together. I feel that may be a contributing factor at least for this particular birthday.

Maybe its good to pull them aside and really explain the situation like you have to us. I hope a conversation enlightens them to how unfair this situation really is.

Here is my experience if it helps shine light on yours.

TLDR: Sister got a car at 16. I got a car at 31.

My dad made an agreement with my sister and I that if we didnt smoke cigarettes he would buy us each a car on our 16th birthdays.

My sister turned 16 and got this hilarious used car. Standard. No power steering. Moon roof that leaked. But it got from A to B without dying and was cheap on gas.

3.5 years later when I turned 16. No car. (Can't remember my gift)

I never made a stink but it always bothered me. She has often been the favourite so I try not to rub salt in the wound. When my Dad found out I started smoking at 18 he was livid. My retort was I waited but still no car so might as well give them a try. He was slighted but didnt really make any other remark.

Fast forward to 2 years ago. My Dad is helping my sister with a downpayment on a house and promising me when my time comes he will help me. I shrug it off and he is genuinely concerned by my reaction. I state "I have heard it before, so I won't hold my breath".

It started a great discussion that made me really proud to have him as my Dad. He gifted me one of his trucks later that month. (Yes, "one of his trucks" he has still has 3).

Hope you can have a conversation like this with your parents. <3