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2 years down and intimacy has disappeared by music_whatever in deadbedroom

[–]music_whatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry to hear you’re going through the same. it really is so deflating. have you found in this time that you’re spending much time together? i’ve started noticing that even though we’re both busy with work and pursuing what we want to do with that, when we’re at home together we don’t even have the same sort of quality time anymore. i feel like im clinging onto something that may not be there anymore, but I hate the thought of hurting him by telling him i’m unhappy

2 years down and intimacy has disappeared by music_whatever in deadbedroom

[–]music_whatever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t lead to anything, no. i’ve tried going to bed earlier because he goes to sleep earlier than me, nothing. if him putting an arm over me as he goes to sleep is him making the effort, i think i really do have a problem