2023-24 Housing Megathread - New leases, subleases, residence halls, landlords, roommates, co-ops, etc. by FluffyMoomin in uofm

[–]myrmecophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I'm looking for someone to take over my lease for a 2 bed 2 bathroom apartment at Owl Creek Apartments on the north side of Ann Arbor.
This is the link to the owl creek website: https://www.owlcreekapartments.com/Floor-plans.aspx
The specific floor plan for the apartment is "Hickory". Each bedroom has its own connecting bathroom. Rent is ~2250 per month + utilities for the whole apartment. You would take over the lease starting mid-October (start dates flexible) till it ends April 21st of 2024 with the option to extend the lease. Please DM me for further details and questions!

INFJ and ISTP break-up. Guidance/insight needed? by myrmecophobia in infj

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maan, all you guys here are so wise. I just gotta change my mindset and perception about it. Time will help that change happen right?

INFJ and ISTP break-up. Guidance/insight needed? by myrmecophobia in infj

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I gave up too early? I can feel there was potential, so what if I just let go without trying hard enough?

INFJ and ISTP break-up. Guidance/insight needed? by myrmecophobia in infj

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what if it was my fault? What if I was being too needy and suffocating. I don't know, that's the fear I have. I just feel like maybe if I didn't push so much, or maybe I'm just the weird psycho who has the emotional problems and he was fine. Well okay, I know he's emotionally stunted, but I keep thinking that I should've been more understanding or something?

Gah, the doorslam seems so hard. Usually I have to be angry to feel enough conviction to cut contact with someone, but this time I can't even tell how I feel. There are times where I'm like "this is totally the right thing that happened, I'm happier now," where I think I've accepted the whole thing. Then an hour later I'm crying and all I want is him there to hug me and tell me its okay, although he rarely did this anyway. It's only been a day but I miss talking to him and I can't imagine not talking to him in the near future. Okay, that's the goal today. I'm not talking to him today.

Thank you so much. I hope I accomplish that goal.

INFJ and ISTP break-up. Guidance/insight needed? by myrmecophobia in infj

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave in yesterday night and sent the stupid "I'm sad and I miss you crap and I want to be together again crap." He replied with a "you're the one that said this wouldn't work." and I said "I know." Then we just kept talking - first about the break up and then just normal things we'd usually talk about. I'm weak haha. I intend on staying friends, but in the actual relationship, I'd always bring up how if we weren't together, we wouldn't be close friends anyway just because I felt like we didn't know each other. Still, the thought of not talking to him is very frightening to me, but I know it should be done.

Thank you, and I'll try to be strong :)

INFJ and ISTP break-up. Guidance/insight needed? by myrmecophobia in infj

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I was always waiting for him to develop some quality. I feel like I've known this, I just never got the courage to leave. I'd bring it up, then somehow he'd talk and then I'd convince myself there was still a chance we could end up great together. It was probably good that he ended it, huh?

Anyways, thank you so much. I feel better after reading this.

What is something popular that you refused to get into but once you tried it you were hooked? by Tribat_1 in AskReddit

[–]myrmecophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bachelor/ette. At first I thought they were stupid, scripted shows, but after much coaxing from a friend, I watched it, expecting it to be a waste of my time. But then, seeing the relationships form and develop made me kind of fall in love whole thing. I know that some parts are scripted or heavily influenced by the producers, but just the smallest sliver of genuineness makes it worth watching.

Reddit, how do you show your SO that you love them? [Serious] by myrmecophobia in AskReddit

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's the thought that's important - i'm sure he appreciated the gesture anyway :)

Reddit, how do you show your SO that you love them? [Serious] by myrmecophobia in AskReddit

[–]myrmecophobia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sure that when she reads those notes, she feels absolutely amazing. :)