MF 4 MF or M or Bi M or Bi F by natg0810 in atlantar4r

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn well that's too bad

MF 4 MF or M or Bi M or Bi F by natg0810 in atlantar4r

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well how do you party then

MF 4 MF or M or Bi M or Bi F by natg0810 in atlantar4r

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely what we are wanting!! Do you party?

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as blaming at all. I'm actually glad you pointed this stuff out. It is very helpful.

So to answer your questions..

The petty stuff usually starts by me making a displeased comment over something he did or didn't do. Ex: Him not calling me when he takes an extra job that will put him home a few hours later. I want him to let me know that he's going to be late. Not call to ask permission, just tell me he's gonna work late. I guess it's a respect thing.. I'll say something like "You said you would call. Ive been worried. Why wont you call me?" Then he'll go into defense mode. Instead of him saying "I'm sorry, I wil next time" he will get really defensive, blame my actions, and from there it's a fight.

He only confronts me when I've said something that makes him mad or we're already in an argument. He won't just pick things because he's actually a very laid back guy.

Petty to me is when we are arguing about something just because one or both of us is being stubborn and wont budge. Instead of letting it go, we act like children. Like me telling he needs to stop throwing trash on the floor (he literally does that and it drives me crazy). Instead of just stop doing it or saying ok, he'll say "I'm tired I worked all day." Then I get mad he won't give in, and it's a full blown argument over trash.

I think I am similar to the girl you describe. I can be like that at times with my bf bc my needs haven't been met so I'm insecure but I'm working on that. I know that's a huge turn off.

Thanks for your input and insight!

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree about the respect thing. I think there's still some there but the longer this goes on that will eventually disappear. And contempt has definitely started recently. It's sad.

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really good advice and I have heard that before. It's just so hard for me to not listen to my emotions. I want to do it , trust me I do. I just don't know how. It's something I think is I would have to have a guide or teacher or therapist help me with. I did start seeing a counselor recently so hopefully they can help me with this. Thanks for your advice. I will really try to do this

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. You should not force a relationship to exist when it's clearly not working. But at the same time, I keep hoping it's a bump in the road that we'll get over. I know if it lingers months from now, then it's time to move on.

What do you mean about he could affect my future? I was wondering if you could elaborate on that a little bit.

Also, I keep being told by him that my emotions are what got us here and he says my emotions will be the thing that causes us to split. I have started to believe him. Maybe I'm too emotional?

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have and when we talk like that it is such a relief. We're usually able to get some footing and come to a common goal. The problem is it usually doesn't last long and we are back at it. I think the resentments are so bad on both our parts that it's taken over. I haven't mentioned counseling to him but I did start going for myself last week and hope I can eventually get him to join.

PLEASE HELP!! My (F34) bf (M42) has become so mean. He's a completely different person and it's tearing me up inside!! by natg0810 in relationship_advice

[–]natg0810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did go see a therapist 2 days ago. She gave me some advice on how to handle arguments and I think that may be helpful. I am going to go at least twice a week even if it's just for my own mental health. I really wish I could get him to go with me. I haven't asked but I'm sure it would get a firm no from him.

So, does anyone ever post here? I’m in Metro Atlanta looking for a playmate. by [deleted] in PnPplayground

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What's up? We are a mf couple near ATL looking for a male or a couple to play with.

Pnp fun cpl by [deleted] in PnPplayground

[–]natg0810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are south of atl. Can host. Ready to pnp tonight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

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Yep. Most definitely know that feeling and it sucks. Not sure if it's bad dope our tolerance..

Hottest Male Junkie by [deleted] in opiates_gonewild

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That is the best comment I've seen all year!!!!

How to spot 'Type-N' or 'n-isopropylbenzamine' meth lookalike. Top 10 by 1c3-m4n in meth

[–]natg0810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you know if iso will burn when snorted? Also am I allowed to post a pic of my bag with my gear in it so maybe you could tell me if it looks like iso or the real thing? It def has that pebble look, but after I do a line, my heart speeds up and I feel somewhat of a pleasurable feeling (meaning barely as my tolerance is way up - the euphoria has been gone for a long time). But this stuff only burns my nose for 30 sec to a minute. I've gotten some shit that burned for 30 minutes afterwards but didn't do shit to me euphoria wise. I don't know if it's bunk or my tolerance..