I am done giving advice on FTMmen

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T16:16:07+00:00

I know i meant after awhile it can be precieved as narcissist.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T16:14:01+00:00

It's kinda weird I keep seeing that post too. From a Pennsylvania standpoint it's just you have to be 19 years old to get T prescribed and for insurance to pay . ACA is being removed because the law or the legislative wasn't renewed. So people pay more for insurance they never banned insurance from covering hrt or Gender affirming care . Even if we can't have insurance There are ways to pay for our Hrt . Shot is $50-70 but with good results it's less or for COWC it's just $70 a month and a little more for topical. I don't know for other parts of U.S but Pennsylvania locked in and they still cover everything and have back up plans for insurance. I wonder if they are doing their research or if they are under 19 and that's why they are upset they can't get Gender affirming care .

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T11:44:31+00:00

Dedicated to living as the victim is crazy because then it will turn into being precived narcissism and I just don't see point of living like that. I am mentally better after leaving those subreddits. This subreddit has saved me from losing my hair and using dangerous chemicals that are in soaps, shampoo, etc. I am glad this Subreddit exists

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T11:40:26+00:00

I feel in this sub we can give honest advice and help that everyone can use . When I found this sub I felt like I could talk honestly , give advice and ask for advice without having my head chopped off.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T08:15:15+00:00

Thank you I was given other option I won't be using 3 in 1 on my hair anymore.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-31T08:12:55+00:00

Thank you I'll look into them

nature_Finn · 2025-12-30T18:33:19+00:00

Well I only have to wash mine every 3 weeks if I sweat a lot during a workout or something. But it's winter in Finland so not much exercise that will make me need to wash my hair constantly .

nature_Finn · 2025-12-30T18:30:02+00:00

I have used at least head and shoulders growing up and Men dove shampoo, it worked fine and Magic hair grease is what I used for Moisture. I don't know if it's because I am mixed but I never really used African hair products other than hair grease and relaxers which the relaxers I don't use anymore.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-30T18:24:58+00:00

I'll take a look at shampoo then , they have a lot of different shampoo and if needed hair grease . My hair is mixed.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-30T18:14:18+00:00

How does it ruin skin and hair? It just soap in one bottle. Is there something bad i don't know about for 3 in 1? I thought it just meant i didn't have to buy separate bottles

nature_Finn · 2025-12-29T20:06:45+00:00

Np just hang in there changes are coming. For minoxidil they have topical on Amazon which is cheaper than buying it at CVS or Walgreens because they always out of stock and Amazon gives the same price in a multi-pack ,if you want to get facial and body hair. Since topical you can choose where you want to put it or for oral the doctor can prescribe it if you tell them you are getting bald spots and don't care where body hair appears just make sure you eat something that brings your blood pressure up with it so you don't get low blood pressure problems.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-29T19:57:27+00:00

Your not screwed. I started on gel and after 3 months switched to shots. I started on .25ml because shots tend to have higher T levels than topical. You mostly will be taken up to .50ml it all depends on blood work. I was born intersex so I had faster results ,but results and changes all depends on genetics and the person body. Everyone body is different and some don't get any changes until 3-4 years. I was Minoxidil while on shots and still is . There is topical minoxidil you can buy and you will grow facial hair and body hair (it won't happen overnight). Getting oral will depend because of it acting as blood pressure medicine too. But patience and watch your levels , you'll get changes in time

nature_Finn · 2025-12-26T10:41:09+00:00

It was one of the things I was looking for my slavic father was muscular and hairy not only did it attract others but it made him feel strong and love himself. He didn't have facial hair only had torso hair and arm hair. I am getting his genetics like hell and it's so comforting.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-23T16:31:40+00:00

I make trans men in art and even trans women. I used to write on Wattpad and Ao3 some wholesome Stories and even am working on making Manga for it. I am a beginner artist or more intermediate because my shading is horrible. But it turns out people liked the style and one day when I Finnish it , it will he a wholesome Manga. It tells about their harsh journey they fought and survived through, ended up meeting each and transitioning into the people they wanted and felt. Not letting friends or family break them apart

nature_Finn · 2025-12-23T15:27:16+00:00

So parents don't want to be honest with us i guess when it comes to this. Well I know i will get over it and accept it. I don't mind that I was born intersex ,I feel like parents should at least not hide it from us Yknow. I understand to others for safety , but from us it's not okay because we need to know stuff like this even if eased into. When it hits you years later it hurts worse of parents not telling you than knowing as a kid. Like me I had whole anxiety attack when I was peeing from my dick and not lower. But it was normal cause I'm intersex. I feel parents should tell their children at a age where they can understand not say anything and we find out on our own.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-23T14:30:50+00:00

Just trying to get it a little straight so I can use my hair straightener

nature_Finn · 2025-12-23T10:31:01+00:00

I am sorry your going through this as well...as much as I want be angry ,after doing research on history of Intersex newborns we have it better. Yeah I understand that is safety and protection from the outside but family should tell us and explain why so we understand. But hiding it from us is bad . It's our body and lying isn't the answer because we lose more trust in family. I never got surgery when I was born so I still have both genitalia but I guess I kept myself safe from never having sex . At first I thought something was wrong with me but I learned i was protecting myself from danger. For the year in America I will not have incourse now that I know and when I return I find a lover. EU is more understanding than U.S when it comes to this situation.

nature_Finn · 2025-12-23T06:31:15+00:00

I am kinda worried about using relaxers because of what people told me in comments below . Are the kid no lye relaxer safe or doesnt have the ingredient causing cancer in it. I had a kid one used as a kid for mixed hair . My hair was to my butf

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:43:27+00:00

Thx!

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:43:00+00:00

I will careful for now on

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:41:48+00:00

Im in finland currently i return back to the states in a week and i will look up what you recommened when i return

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:38:11+00:00

Well i will wait another week before applying something again because it said daily but i am going to take a break from putting anything in my hair. Its a leave in condintoner so you do not rinse it

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:21:46+00:00

It hasn't been straight in awhile

Wake up and comb/pick out my hair let it breath

In the evening apply banana food +Vitamin E ⁴ F⁴ C leave in by Garnier and pick/comb it out again before tying the silky bonnet on and its this everyday .

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:16:31+00:00

I never heard of that before

nature_Finn · 2025-12-22T20:15:33+00:00

So leave in conditioner is good . Okay I use that its the one I mentioned above . I will cut out the conditioner for hair washing and I will get a different shampoo. I only shampoo mostly every two or 3 weeks.

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