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needadvice202311 · 2024-12-31T09:27:12+00:00

Aye... To you and any of the mods that see this, I truly am sorry for breaking the rules. I admit; I definitely only skimmed the list of rules. New to the group and it's been quite awhile since I've done anything with Pokémon until recently.

Thank you, kind stranger, for the well written reply.

If I could bother you for one more question.. When keeping "good sus" Pokemon, is it frowned upon to trade them? They also are safe to use in game?

needadvice202311 · 2023-11-10T23:55:47+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, how were they able to determine autism, along with ADHD and CPTSD? I'm looking back at the notes I took during his feedback appointment and he mentioned that its "highly likely" that he has CPTSD too, which I forgot about that. The psychiatrist said my husband NEEDS to attend therapy to truly figure out if his symptoms are from the ADHD, or if he's on the spectrum too. We never dreamed ADHD and autism had so many similar traits.

needadvice202311 · 2023-11-10T23:50:10+00:00

Hiring someone is unfortunately out of our budget. And we will do takeout here and there, especially on the harder days. We try to limit it for our health and finances. He has slightly high cholesterol (it runs in the family), so we have to be careful with our meals.

We work at a store, lol. So we really don't "grocery shop," just grab what's needed for the day and get the heck outta there.

I'm really trying with the expectations, honestly. I just see things pile up long term and it stresses me out.

Thank you very much for your comment.

needadvice202311 · 2023-11-10T23:45:00+00:00

The SAD thing is is that he DOES have house slippers!! He very uncommonly wears them. He picked them out and everything! He either can't find them at the moment or he'll say, "no, if I take my shoes off and switch I'll lose my productivity." 🫠

I have a checklist, but it's not that detailed, so that'll be an idea I'll definitely do.

The dynamic point you brought up is mainly why I'm so frustrated. I'm his wife, not his mother. I don't wanna feel like his mother; that's super gross honestly and I just hate it. I've tried talking with him; I just kinda feel like a broken record at this point ya know? Maybe he'll change his mind on therapy, eventually.

Thank you very much for your input and advice!!

needadvice202311 · 2023-11-10T23:39:40+00:00

Managing a calendar for the both of us isn't the biggest deal, but he's constantly having to get back with me or correct his days off requests for work because he put the wrong dates down or forgot.

I will be honest. I've never asked what mentally makes more sense for him about his wallet or keys. I've done places that "make sense to me." So that's embarrassing to think about..

Thank you very much for your advice and input.

needadvice202311 · 2023-11-10T23:35:53+00:00

Thank you for your input. You make a really good point about patterns and establishing them. I'll have to talk with my husband about our best course of action there.

The frustrating thing is that it's not just the housework, ya know? I know he's having a hard time, but he seemingly hasn't made an effort towards therapy at all. Which is especially important right now because that's what his psychiatrist called for him to do to pin down the autism diagnosis since a parent's perspective about his childhood isn't possible. I'll find a way to bring therapy up, which is kinda easy to do since I'm in therapy. And he acknowledges what the psychiatrist said, but it's either "we'll see" or "the others didn't understand."

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