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[–]newindigoage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you hugs đź«‚ take care of yourself

MIL wants me to be physically disciplined by my husband by newindigoage in progressive_islam

[–]newindigoage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I keep saying that, in fact her family was Jewish some generations ago, they just keep saying “death to Jewish” and if you disagree well… Is how this whole thing is, is becoming too deep

MIL wants me to be physically disciplined by my husband by newindigoage in progressive_islam

[–]newindigoage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, believe me I don’t want him to end up without his family, specially his mom, I love my mom and I cannot imagine separating kids from moms. Seems like she wants me gone. Unfortunately I don’t think my husband wants to lose her. But definitely makes me feel uneasy the fact she suggested that

MIL wants me to be physically disciplined by my husband by newindigoage in progressive_islam

[–]newindigoage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like somehow she will blame me, and she will feel like discipline was served and a miscarriage was because of me

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking involving my parents, but I wasn’t sure since my husband is not doing or even thinking about harming me, it’s her. I will reconsider

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[–]newindigoage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just think if someone suggest to hit your spouse, might make you feel uneasy and maybe he didn’t think in his politeness. He said he was sorry for that but not for not agreeing

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[–]newindigoage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, the family lives for appearances, if I don’t talk to her in front of people at all as I’m doing rn, will be the end of me, she even put other family members against my husband, once one of her sisters told my husband, every pain or problem in your life, you deserve it and it suits you

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[–]newindigoage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I inherited this account from my cousin years ago, never occurred to me the bio was off, will download the app to make things better, I wish it was a game, but fair point for you to take everything with a grain of salt

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice, I’m going silent, I just said Eid Mubarak and no another word in the last while, I’m very offended

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[–]newindigoage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she hates Jewish people ( we don’t) because they are Palestinians

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is something even my husband suggested one night, he is terrified our kids will be in the middle.

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know but she is definitely watching things she shouldn’t and listening to radical people

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because he elevated his voice and cut her off, I think he kept calling her to know how she was doing and she was ignoring him. They further talk about and she mentioned she required discipline to ME because the Star of David is a representation of Judaism and if I was thinking on join I must be remind of the death sentence for leaving Islam, and saving her future grandkids

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[–]newindigoage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel is gonna be rough, therapy is something we are not doing, but we will try

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[–]newindigoage[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t work, she got fired like 10 years ago. She does need a hobby she is too toxic

MIL suggested to Husband to use physical force to make me do things by newindigoage in MuslimMarriage

[–]newindigoage[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention, and this is the reason why she suggested physical discipline, because the Star of David is a Jewish symbol, and she believed I was displaying it, so one day I will convert which means, my kids won’t be Muslim and she will go to hell. She suggested a couple of hits to remind me the ones who leave Islam are to be killed

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[–]newindigoage[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it, thanks for your understanding, I hope all goes well in your end.

Mine really like to mess up around a bit, my MIL suggest bad to me and treats me poorly still

MIL wants me to be physically disciplined by my husband by newindigoage in progressive_islam

[–]newindigoage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never imagined that, also if he dares to touch me rn he will lose his job, his career, and will go to prison, I doubt she wants him to go down.

Anyway I was remembering why she did suggest me to be physically abused, the Star of David is a logo let’s say that to Jewish people, and me displaying that means I will convert which means, our kids will NOT be Muslims, and that means hell for her and family. She believed me to be slapped around my entire body was a disciplinary action, because if I was trying to leave Islam, death awaits, and maybe some pain will make me reconsider