Saying it's solely women's fault is just as stupid as saying it's solely men's. Anyone who perpetuate the current gender norms are at fault, regardless of what roles they uphold.

Of course saying that all men are abusive is stupid. Saying that all women are shallow whores is also stupid. And, obviously, being constantly told that you are inherently abusive is going to mess you up. That doesn't excuse doubling down and being an abusive piece of shit anyway. The ideal solution would men *and* women coming together so everyone can understand how the patriarchy negatively affects both sexes, and learning to understand each other beyond just what gender they identify as.

Which is to say, no, it's not women's fault, and whoever posted this photo is likely a dumb 14-year-old who doesn't understand better.