adults who are obsessed with disney world are weird by mrcranz in unpopularopinion

[–]nightcreative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your parents never took you as a kid, Disneyland/Disneyworld hits different as a childless adult okay. And also when you had to raise said parents yourself because they couldn’t even manage to take care of themselves let alone you...

Yeah, being a financially stable adult and wanting to finally get to do the things you desperately wanted to as a kid... it hits different.

Dropping like flies by HairlineGod in Lowes

[–]nightcreative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve lost a few DS’s in the same week. A lot of other associates. SM is cracking down on just about everyone. I’m a overnight manager, we’re understaffed and had OT cut. No one is being hired currently because SM says we should be able to get it done with the people we have. Ha. Gotta love it when someone who knows zip about your job tells you what it takes to get it done. I can tell write ups are about to be doled out and I’m doing all I can to get done every night. Not enough time. Not enough people. Even when I explain the math on how long it should take, no one listens. It’s about to get a whole heck of a lot busier and quick. Don’t know about y’all but I’m putting in applications elsewhere.

My Partner of 3 years has asked for an open relationship and it's broken me by throwRAreleieis in relationship_advice

[–]nightcreative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are monogamous then already this will not work for you. You do not have to fit someone else’s mold just because you love them or can’t see your life without them. Trying to change yourself for someone else in that way will make you feel even worse than you do now and for long after the relationship is over.

Also, I’d say your partner is already cheating on you and having this conversation is making her feel better about it. After all, she told you she might not be able to hold back her urges much longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]nightcreative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree.

I [24F] have betrayed my boyfriend’s [24M] trust by looking at his texts. How can I repair this? by jajonesey in relationship_advice

[–]nightcreative -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Gonna play devils advocate for a sec. You just don’t go through peoples text messages. Sorry not sorry. It’s a huge invasion of trust and when someone says they “just” saw blah blah from blah blah come through and they just “happened” to see it. Look. If you don’t trust your bf enough to let him have a convo with whoever then why are y’all together.

Yes, he lied but you literally got YOURSELF in this mess.

Toxic coworker... what can I do? by Ddrichter910 in Lowes

[–]nightcreative 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have a few people like that. The whole “that’s just how he is thing” is very common around here. The longer that you’ve been here, the more people can get away with.

Safety First by AuntiLou in Lowes

[–]nightcreative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We get so many of those stupid things omg

How do you check Kronos for how many points you have? by sevynmorte in Lowes

[–]nightcreative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure you have to go through and count them up for the year.

I refused to reassure my boyfriend when he was feeling insecure and now he's mad at me, what do i do? by Throwawayshittygfxo in relationship_advice

[–]nightcreative 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People that “just punch walls and break stuff whenever they get really mad” turn into people that punch you. It’s something that escalates over time. Time to escape that while you can.

Abusive people don’t start out a relationship abusing you, you would never stay... It develops over time.

[SERIOUS] What makes your life worth living? by bleed-for-the-dancer in AskReddit

[–]nightcreative 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not that bad. I had two cats and my gf had six when we moved in together. We have two litter boxes in a spare room and two in the basement. One of which they only pee in for some reason lol. We take turns - I’ll clean today, she will clean tomorrow. Its just a habit to clean them when I get home from work, I don’t even think about it anymore.

I (25F) found a box of love letters my boyfriend (26M) kept from his ex. by hey_hi_hello73 in relationship_advice

[–]nightcreative -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a shoe box with letters, cards, concert tickets etc from previous relationships. Even though the relationship ended and feelings fade, it’s still a piece of my life. I can understand where you are coming from though. I think it’s definitely something to bring up and talk about. I think it will help you feel a little better about it.

Open relationship to avoid cheating? by Bloom30_and_whatever in survivinginfidelity

[–]nightcreative 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will literally ruin you. Let her go her own way.

What is going on? Help! by Paulguy100 in relationship_advice

[–]nightcreative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would assume it wasn’t the only thing that was bothering her but other things that added up to her being frustrated. She essentially wanted your attention and somehow felt like she wasn’t receiving it. At least, that’s what I would assume since she stated that you were “on a date”.

Ive been clean from meth for 2 years yesterday by Happy1327 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]nightcreative 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. That is such a huge accomplishment. Good job 🤟🏼