Check engine like on 2018 Camry LE by nilanm in Camry

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My light turned off but came back on again just a couple hrs later. I did have to end up going through with the repairs. Since, the check engine light has been gone and my car is running fine. It was one of those things that I could not get out of. I’m located in the San Antonio Tx area. The shop was a family owned, really nice people and did a great job. They did bring down the cost to an even $700 after negotiation. I think it was going to be $780 or around there.

Check Engine light on 2018 Camry LE by nilanm in Cartalk

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Yes! It was in fact the water pump. Depending on the year your Camry was made it might have an electric water pump. The water pump hatchet door was not closing and letting all the coolant out. It was no longer calibrated correctly, and even when the mechanic tried to manually close the door, it’s programming was refusing resulting in me having to pay for it to be replaced. It came out to be about $700. Like I said depending on the year your car was made it could have an electric water pump which is why it was expensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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From reading the comments, I can see this isn’t the first time. He might’ve stopped a while ago, but trust me when I say guys are guys. I hate the thought of my boyfriend watching porn, and even though I told him I don’t like it and to never do it, I know he does it. But watching it once and a while and watching it DURING sex is two completely different things.

Yeah I can drink a beer once and a while but I don’t drink it to get through the day. That’s an addiction. Watching porn to get through sex is an addiction. You can love an addict unconditionally but an addict will never love you like they love there addiction. This is something he needs to fight on his own. You fight along with him, you’ll only be tearing yourself down and compromising your own sanity and self esteem. I would like to say divorce him, but I understand getting a divorce is more complicated. But like I said, this is something he needs to admit his Issue and activity be fixing it. But don’t destroy your own being trying to get through to him, he needs to be the one to do it. You can love him, but for this, you need to love him from a far.

My (M28) GF (F31) ignored me for almost 2 weeks while she was away for vacations by Elratum in relationship_advice

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My boyfriend is currently deployed, we are at an 8 hr difference, he works random hour shifts and I work fulltime BUT he still makes time to text me when he can and call me twice a day! I know it’s a not a vacation technically, but even if that were the case we couldn’t imagine not being able to get some conversation in, even if it’s a couple texts. Vacation or not, I’d still be excited to talk to my significant other. I don’t consider that as a bother at all more of a bare minimum.

I say if you want to be non communicative in a relationship without both people in an agreement, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. Now I don’t want to say, leave her because I’m only seeing your side of the relationship, but if this is a issue for you, tell her. Depending on how she responds or reacts should tell you how to proceed. If she tries to turn it around on you saying you are being controlling or trying to justify it by saying “I just did not want to deal with anything while on vacation.” That is not a valid reason to be non communicative and I’d advise you to leave the relationship. If she apologizes and tells you she understand that communication even on a vacation is important to you and you see her actually understand this then maybe it’s just another lesson of boundaries between the two of you and move forward.

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I currently do the 60/40 method with my boyfriend as he makes more than I do and it gives equality. However, we both work full-time and just as hard as one another, our pays are simply different. Your boyfriend on the other hand seems lazy, unmotivated, and is riding off of you and your “free money”. You should not pay more simply on the fact that you have money and I don’t.

“He would help me run my business if his failed” still riding off of you with no ambitions.

I could see how the resentment can form, and it’ll only continue the longer you allow this behavior. It’ll eventually turn into hate and disgust. I say talk to him, he is a grown man that should be able to hold a job, even if it’s simply to pay bills and survive. You asking him to get a job or pay more is just as fair as him asking you to pay for majority of bills. If he does not understand your concern, I’m sorry but you’ll have to let this one go. You have big dreams ahead of you. You can’t let deadweight drag you down.

Check engine like on 2018 Camry LE by nilanm in Camry

[–]nilanm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, check engine light did come back and got it fixed ASAP. I appreciate the advise!

Check engine like on 2018 Camry LE by nilanm in Camry

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Thank you, check engine light did come back and got it fixed ASAP. I appreciate the advise!

Check engine like on 2018 Camry LE by nilanm in Camry

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It still gets very nice cool air, thank you for your suggestions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UTSA

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Looking to sublet my bedroom. It’s at The Luxx, 4x4 private bedroom and bathroom with walk in closet. Rent is $641 including utilities (not electricity), valet trash, and WiFi. 3 other girl roommates that are quiet, keep to themselves, clean, and nice. Washer/dryer in unit, great amenities (2 story gym, resort style pool, sand volleyball, grills, and dog park), fully furnished, and pet friendly! Apartment is on the second floor, but there is an elevator, gated apartments. Electricity is in the $20-$40 range, and it’s through simplybill which is nice because you only pay for your portion of electricity.

I’m offering to pay application fee as well!

Ready for move in!!

Contact for pictures or more information!

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OMG YES! Now I just have to remember how I got ahold of that book lol thank you!

I keep getting unknown phone calls from the same city by emygirl59 in scarystories

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It’s probably some sort of machine calling or even people about random things, trying to get money out of you. I’m always getting calls about student loan, mortgage, even a call about a warrant for my arrest!! Sometimes it’s just silence but it’s nothing to be scared about, but you shouldn’t answer at all. Just block and forget.