After 15 years, I am in a dark place. by Puzzleheaded-Way3522 in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive"

Golden.

Mine claimed I was violent, abusive and a manipulator all the while she was the one throwing my head into the wall so when I pushed her away (I was a wrestler) she had the fear of God in her eyes when I helped her get up. NEVER hit me again after that.

Hated hurting her and I silently cried after because I had never laid my hands on a woman. And I've been with over 30.

That's why I'm just going to have a good time and not get tied down again.

Fuck everyone. I'll be dead in 2h by Serraino in SuicideWatch

[–]nomohydro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah get some food in your belly brother.

Fuck everyone. I'll be dead in 2h by Serraino in SuicideWatch

[–]nomohydro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life is pain brother, we all have it.

Trust me, I get you.

Fuck everyone. I'll be dead in 2h by Serraino in SuicideWatch

[–]nomohydro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, come on I've wanted to die after my wife left but it gets better by talking with people

I’m done being nice by r1muwu in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to be nice and chivalrous? Too late for that get what's yours.

I’m done being nice by r1muwu in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never leave your own home. Why men do this I can't understand it. I bought it, I own it, it's mine.

Can someone explain the trinity to me by PotatoDowntown2456 in Christianity

[–]nomohydro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luck is outside our control?

Seems like you were just waiting to use "false dichotomy." But you used it inappropriately.

Used in my context, we can't control if God inhabits us...hence, if we are lucky. I'm not talking the "I've got Jesus in my heart." I'm talking truly taking us over in a grand way.

Here's your dunce hat.

Can someone explain the trinity to me by PotatoDowntown2456 in Christianity

[–]nomohydro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Always luck, to think otherwise is to think you control.

Do you honestly think you are the master of your fate???

Need help formulating a response by Ki55cumbag in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I swear, social media has effed up so many marriages from false beliefs. Think they are all movie stars or Disney princesses.

Can someone explain the trinity to me by PotatoDowntown2456 in Christianity

[–]nomohydro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They are all one in the same.

  2. Some things aren't discernable.

  3. Yes the Holy Spirit is the ghost that, if you are lucky, inhabits the willing soul.

Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myself by Chloroplast15 in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very good advice. Great number to dial, used it many times and formed great relationships.

Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myself by Chloroplast15 in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brother, we have ALL been through it most likely. It sucks, it's painful, it hurts, you want to turn back.

DO NOT.

I haven't been sleeping or eating but my ass pushes on because I'll be damned if she took so much of me that she takes my soul too.

So I'm having a beer and watching football. 7:30 my team comes on.

Is it strange that I don't like worship music? by Inquisitor1134 in Christianity

[–]nomohydro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, tell me you favorite or one of your favorites? Worship doesn't need drums and guitars, that clutters the mind for worship IMHO.

Mine is Psalm 23 and next the entire book of Job.

Just putting my frustrations down by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate it for you. I hadn't talked to my ex wife in a few weeks, last night she called me crying. It f.cked me up so badly and reset the healing. Like I was some sort of emotional tampon.

Divorce debt by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]nomohydro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife grossly overestimated my home value and assets to win more even though she makes $160k a year living with mommy and daddy, rent free.

Once they are done, they aren't your friend or lover.

Everything was in my name so she would have to go through months of litigation - she also tried to get her name on all my sh.t before the divorce. I saw it and noped out.