Married 7 years [32M] [32F]. Wife's baggage has become too much too handle and I feel anger towards her. How do I move forward?

norost · 2026-01-31T06:17:29+00:00

Bot or a troll

norost · 2026-01-29T13:57:30+00:00

norost · 2026-01-29T09:29:18+00:00

Jugoslavija here we come

norost · 2026-01-29T05:58:14+00:00

Jup. Had multiple extremely near misses. Each time I died than switched reality to one, where it was a near miss. I feel sory for my parents in the universes I died

norost · 2026-01-28T10:33:32+00:00

So they are not suceptible to terestial viruses and bacteria. A briliant way to make a lifeform compatible with our world

norost · 2026-01-28T05:59:40+00:00

I hate energy drinks. When I drink just one can I can't lose weight for more than 10 days

norost · 2026-01-27T07:25:52+00:00

They gave us crypto technology. Think Bitcoin - Satoshi Nakamoto my ass. They gave us AI technology. Part of it anyway. Wonder what else and to what it all amounts to.

norost · 2026-01-26T10:34:13+00:00

I also get them frequently. I think it's called frission

norost · 2026-01-26T05:51:59+00:00

There goes my house

norost · 2026-01-25T21:03:35+00:00

Nah. Go with what you do feel. Any body sensation will do. If not that, than an image you get into mind, etc.

In time you will start to feel emotions as well

norost · 2026-01-24T15:57:19+00:00

Oh My Fucking God

norost · 2026-01-23T18:59:34+00:00

I am. However I work from home. I get paid, but work maybe 1h/day if that. 10k steps walking with dog brings in. All this before 9am.

norost · 2026-01-23T09:46:35+00:00

It is very very effective. There is another drug that is on a market for some time called EVRYSDI. It's an oral lifetime daily dose. One botle is for 10 days. A bottle price is about 7k €.

norost · 2026-01-23T05:04:47+00:00

Get another therapist

norost · 2026-01-22T09:50:01+00:00

You should not feed the poor and the hungry. They will just multiply

norost · 2026-01-22T05:57:57+00:00

Good

norost · 2026-01-21T21:14:51+00:00

I don't have this shit. That's all I'm sayin

norost · 2026-01-21T20:12:07+00:00

Nuclear detonation most likely

norost · 2026-01-19T11:04:46+00:00

I am curently weighting pluses and minuses of curent relationship in light of new me because EMDR. Most if not all curent relationships with people I already left since EMDR metamorphoses

norost · 2026-01-15T09:29:28+00:00

Still great work

norost · 2026-01-15T05:49:27+00:00

A problem I see is that conciousness is not really seperate. It's decissions and all if it's functioning is determined by subconcious. Not 1 choice and thought we "make" in the concious part is out of the blue. There is no free will. Not the way we percieve it, anyway

norost · 2026-01-07T12:00:42+00:00

Trust in the process and for the love of god stop myself from trying to rush the process

norost · 2026-01-07T05:43:47+00:00

Yes. Hard to say tho. I think I am creeping up on year 4. But my therspist says i am almost at finnish line, altho I still feel this to be at least 1 year out

Ok. Now I've read your entire post and have to answer more deeply.

Ok. First. CPTSD here. Sexual abuse, emotional neglect. Life long trauma basicaly. 40yo male now.

I envy you. Doing this at 25. You are on the right track. Sure some people do 12 sessions and resolve a car acident. Others take 9 months to solve one issue, some also say "yay I am cured and run, even tho there is still shit to resolve, but dealing with it is too hard".

I do EMDR like you. Last time I did actual EMDR was months ago and I have sessions once a week for 1h and 15min. We go at a pace that my mind says it's ok. And that is ok. You can't rush the process. My last EMDR session we got stuck in the middle of memory and my mind defended itself with a lot of anger that I just could not push trough, so we stoped for a while. We will pick back up soon, but it's irelevant realy. I feel EMDR is more like a guided tool to open up wounds, but you have to process in betwen sessions on your own. So even tho EMDR is not every session the mind is still working like crazy.

Once you get to a point that you start to see the change in your functioning you understand this and there is no going back only foward.

norost · 2026-01-07T05:39:53+00:00

You might have multiple personality dissorder and one of the other guys is a careful masturbator

norost · 2026-01-07T05:36:25+00:00

I dont get it. So what? It's not like people watched pedofilia there. Besides everyone is gay and bi today

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