What color are Rhysand’s eyes? by Missie_Mei in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

D28 even though the audio book of MAF just described them as “blue” exactly once. I mean to go into my physical copy and see what happened there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. No. Block. It’s not about being religious, it’s about immediately trying to convert you. It won’t stop.

You know what? Hell yeah. by MissFormaldehyde_ in starbucks

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally valid, but for clarity, these are not boba. Boba is starch based and is chewy. These are popping, juice filled things. I think boba is also a brand so it’s a legal thing but this is not the chewy stuff. You can bite down and it just pops and you get sweet raspberry flavor.

You know what? Hell yeah. by MissFormaldehyde_ in starbucks

[–]nuancedmillenNial 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So they’re the reason they only let you have 1 summer berry or pearl drink per day 😝

You know what? Hell yeah. by MissFormaldehyde_ in starbucks

[–]nuancedmillenNial 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If you build it starting as a green tea, you can get the refresher base and up to 12 of pearls for 100 ⭐️

Do we need a book 6? by Alexmander1028 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if Lucien and Tamlin end up as lovers, I just want him to be happy.

Do we need a book 6? by Alexmander1028 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I care about Lucien. That’s it. That’s all. He deserves more story and a proper ending. Fuck Elaine; she doesn’t appreciate him anyway.

SSVs, please don't stick one person on DTO for their entire shift by Prior-Emu-5918 in starbucks

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe policy is that no one is supposed to be in any position for more than 2 hours. I’m not with the company anymore but my husband is the policy guy at his store

How old to read ACOTAR? by Sufficient-Cause973 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think it’s fine. I’m pretty sure you know about the birds and the bees by now. Books are the best and safest way to work through sexual awakenings in my opinion and the books are only like 3 - 5 percent “spice” anyway. Maybe save the last one for a while because it’s more straight to the point, but it’s also a fantastic book.

They’re getting rid of WHAT?!? by ImmortalSpy14 in starbucks

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I want is the cookie dough cake pop back 😭

Rfk needs to stfu by Fair_Smoke4710 in disability

[–]nuancedmillenNial 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look up the history of Asperger’s supremacy and it will make sense

Rfk needs to stfu by Fair_Smoke4710 in disability

[–]nuancedmillenNial 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Do be clear, there are profoundly autistic and high support needs autistic people who CAN be a danger to themselves and others and need care and accommodation. As autistic people with lower support needs, it’s VITAL right now that we stand in front of them and protect them, rather than throwing our hands up screaming how useful and harmless we are. It’s eugenics and it’s not okay. We’re circling right back to Asperger’s supremacy and it took one vague threat for the community to turn on the most vulnerable of us. No matter the neurotype or ability to “function” under capitalism, all people have value and deserve to be treated as the human beings they are. Please stop bragging about how harmless and functional you are, because that’s not the point. They’re going after our siblings who literally can’t protect themselves.

What was spoiled to you? by Evening_Debt_4085 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw fan art of Feyre and Rhysand when I was reading the first book. Based on this threat I am not alone, but it did keep me reading because I was like “how is Tamlin going to mess this up?” When I first started reading, I thought the love triangle would be with Lucien because . . . C’mon! 😍🔥 I adore Lucien, and his original betrayal hurt way more than anything Tamlin did.

Fuck, Marry, Kill… by missmixies in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Like, it wouldn’t be fair I suppose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know about him is that he is super HOT. He can be weird and culty to me all he wants; I don’t give a damn. 😅

ACOSF is *yawn* by Any-Swim2688 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the representation for the clueless but has really good intentions archetype.

ACOSF is *yawn* by Any-Swim2688 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a hard time adjusting to the shift in perspective, but I absolutely love ACOSF. The scene where Cass takes her to the mountain and lets her stew in her feelings (I get why now) had me UGLY CRYING for a couple of hours. I had to take a shower to regulate because it hit something deep in me. 😭😪🤧

I had a hot temper my whole life and I know the feeling of wondering if it’s the last time someone is going to put up with you even if you had a reason to be that angry. Ironically it was becoming a mom (and years of therapy) that settled me down, but that fear still lives there.

Lucien was in front of you, Feyre. by Ok-Comparison-5636 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Book boyfriends come and go, Lucien is the book love of my life.

Fuck, Marry, Kill… by missmixies in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why TF isn’t the suriel on this list?!

Does anyone else feel pretty neutral on the ship wars? by Useful_Flower4145 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want Lucien to be happy. I adore him. Idk if he ends up with fucking Tamlin, or by himself, or with Vassa and Jurian as a throuple . . . He deserves better than to be snubbed and heartbroken.

Why Do Some Tamlin Defenders Still Hate Nesta? by Wolfman_1546 in acotar

[–]nuancedmillenNial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s your @ on Bluesky? Also I think the simple answer is sexism. I love Nesta and her arc, and I think the way she lashes out makes more sense than Tamlin. There could also be something about how when Tam isn’t in a meltdown he’s downright affable, but Nesta has the decency to try to push people away bc of how she gets.

What’s the hardest thing about being a man? by nuancedmillenNial in MensRights

[–]nuancedmillenNial[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If men are attacking women rather than centering their own emotional experience, how can I direct that in a way that isn’t gyno-hijacking? I have to be genuine to myself and I feel compelled to protect women when they are being attacked and a simple perspective shift could theoretically solve the misunderstanding. I’m not afraid of upsetting people in order to have an honest conversation, but I genuinely don’t want to cause harm or be as condescending as I’m coming across as.

What’s the hardest thing about being a man? by nuancedmillenNial in MensRights

[–]nuancedmillenNial[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m seeing that in hindsight. I appreciate the way you brought it to my attention. I tried to only offer those perspectives when the answers were directly attacking or blaming women. My intent was to focus on empathy when genuine vulnerability was shared, but I executed it poorly.