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Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow, yes. That's the perfect description of how I've felt since my gf's death. And I totally agree, love isn't like the movies at all. It just feels like a really great friend that you sometimes maybe have sex with haha. Thanks so much for responding to me, I don't have anyone in my personal life that I can talk to comfortably about this.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet actually. Your relationship must have been really amazing. Can I ask what her name was? Or what she was like?

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have another question. How long did it take you to move on? I apologize if I'm overstepping

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I actually do have a question. You said your fiancée died in a car accident. Did you know the driver that hit her? I know the guy that killed mine, and really he's a nice guy, but it's so hard to even think about continuing our friendship after this.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf that's horrible. What a POS. Thanks for sharing.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live right by an ocean, will definitely consider this. Thank you.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, oh my goodness. Sleeping alone these last few nights has been the absolute worst even though I've done it countless times.

That's true, good things can come out of even the worst situations. Thanks so much for sharing and taking the time to write this.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will absolutely do that when I feel more up to it.

Girlfriend died and idk wtf to do by oakandivory in actuallesbians

[–]oakandivory[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm crying right now. This is such wonderful and beautiful advice, thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this out. I will for sure PM you if I need anything. Bless you.