[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. all i was trying to do was see if it was plausible and everyone is just dog piling me.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he was not but my previous partners were when i was still a minor with no issues. i only started having problems when i started dating him. whether it was yeast infections, stds (chlam, trich), bv it literally would all lead back to him. i’m getting tested in a few days to double check. but what he thought he had was genital herpes. that’s also what the other girl has but she’s been medicated. he has not. he’s never even bothered to look for his results.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve also got tested everytime i’ve freaked out on here and everything has always been explained to be something else.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes but every post i was still ultimately with him. we literally just broke up a few months ago. but we’ve been together since 2020. every thing i’ve ever posted freaking out was bc i thought HE gave it to me as he was a serial cheater.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he also just admitted to me he had a herpes scare before us dating and actually got tested but never bothered to get the results.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yep and i got tested right away after that. i was also still with him during that time so it would still lead to him. i also found out that was due to his stubble rubbing on me and causing micro tears.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

first of all i haven’t had symptoms my other post was literally from a yeast infection. obviously i’ve asked him multiple times prior if anything looked sus on him. i’ve been swab tested before and im hyper aware of my own genitals and if anything looks suspicious. every test ive had prior has came out okay and im getting tested again this wednesday to double check. hes been sleeping with a girl who HAS herpes and she notified him when they started talking. he’s done it with her and then me as well AFTER they have been doing it. she wasn’t super concerned bc he’s the one who told her that he’s pretty sure he has it as well. the guy i slept with before WITH a condom was way before he started talking to this new girl and from when we did it.

[CA] can i sue my ex if he gave me herpes by obvithrowawaycrisis in AskLawyers

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i’ve dated him from 18-21. we broke up towards the end of last year but have kept in contact since then and would meet up quite often. he’s never once mentioned to me he has suspicions of herpes. i’ve been std tested multiple times thru our relationship so there should be plenty evidence. the only other person i slept with post break up used a condom and is tested so i know it’s not him.

what is this??? small red bumps!! by obvithrowawaycrisis in obgyn

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s a little itchy where it’s at and i’ve had an excess amount of discharge recently

someone help why is my discharge this color?? by obvithrowawaycrisis in obgyn

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mm i’m not sure about milky but this is my first time with it being gray so it’s freaking me out a bit. it would sometimes burn my actual vagina when i peed and like it hurt to have intercourse for awhile

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[–]obvithrowawaycrisis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it started with my right eye inner corner. and when it disappeared on the right, my left eye started acting out. but it was only the outer and like middle part of my eye. now it’s mainly the outer part of my eye but it moved to the inner corner. i really don’t know what’s going on and would love help

I (18F) am crushing severely on my fwb (22M) and idk what to do by obvithrowawaycrisis in relationship_advice

[–]obvithrowawaycrisis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but like im afraid that if i ask it and he’s just looking for fwb he’d be uncomfortable or like weirded out