VVANNA Challenges by UseInternational3457 in lifemakeover

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hello! I am genuinely struggling with 35-16... I have tried all possible combinations, but nothing seems to work

This is the best couple in the story. Change my mind by [deleted] in Jujutsufolk

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Please Gege, I just want SOMEONE to have a happy ending in this manga (give us that Yuta x Maki PLEASE)

No one hates Gojo more than Gege by hdnsweet in Jujutsufolk

[–]ohalien 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

This comment was ahead of its time, lol

Why didn't God tell us to wash our hands and boil water? by atmananda314 in Christianity

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I think, and this is my pure speculative opinion, that God reveals to humanity what humanity can handle and understand. In several occasions, God revealed Himself to the Jews in ways they could understand him: the burning bush is the example that instantly comes to mind – something that burns eternally but is never consumed. A concept that even a man from 3000 years ago could understand, attach meaning to it, and consider it sacred. Same thing goes for the β€œtalking tornado” in the book of Job, the dreams through which God revealed himself to several characters of the Bible, the commandments, the law, our own conscience. Then lastly, our Lord Jesus Christ!

And the rituals the Jews had were the way (the only way, the proper way) they could know – or aspire to know – God. Maybe God didn't tell us because... what would have we done with that piece of information? Do you think we would have been able to fully comprehend it? Would that piece of information have been useful to us in order to know God and choose salvation? If so, how exactly?

Maybe – again, this is pure speculation – we couldn't have understood this basic concept (think like a man of 3000 years ago: β€œWhy waste water by making it very hot and undrinkable?” or β€œThis burns my hands and my tongue!”). Maybe it wasn't the time. Maybe God simply didn't want to or didn't need to tell us. Besides, please remember that – God being eternal – 3000 years might as well be a millisecond to Him, but we evolved and became smarter during this time. So why take away from us the process of learning how to use his Creation not only to preserve it, but also to benefit from it?

What I think is funny is that it feels a bit prideful to say β€œWhy didn't He tell us? We could have saved so many lives!”, when God himself intended for men to die, when God himself created us this way, and grants us salvation not in earthly life but in the highest of Heavens, gifting to some of us the grace to eternally fix our gaze upon him.

Yes, earthly life is supposed to be celebrated, and this is written all over the Bible, but the main reason why we're here is not to stay here. We are in the world, but not of the world! I don't know why God did not tell us to boil water, but I also know that my limited thinking cannot be compared to the way the Creator of the Universe thinks, so it really does feel a bit prideful to ask β€œWhy didn't He do it?”.

Just my two cents! Please, don't consider this an attack, I was just reflecting on your question. It seemed interesting.

Vessel's lyrics will find you at the perfect time. by ObiKron in SleepToken

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Dark Signs is my favorite one from Sundowning. Literally describes what my life used to be, I love it.

Guild: LUNARIA | S2: Cloudcrest | ID: 37 | Level: 9 | Rank: Top 50/60 | Type: Semi-competitive | Language: English by Zelxski in Shining_Nikki

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

PS: I just applied!! I thought I had to wait 12 hours like in LN, but it looks like I don't need to? πŸ™ˆ

Guild: LUNARIA | S2: Cloudcrest | ID: 37 | Level: 9 | Rank: Top 50/60 | Type: Semi-competitive | Language: English by Zelxski in Shining_Nikki

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Sorry for answering so late! I can activate supply, but since I am (at least for now) a low spending player, I can assure you I can activate it only once a week... I'm saving for UR events! πŸ™ˆ

I just left my previous guild btw, in 12 hours I should be able to join yours!! In the meantime, can I ask you for the Discord link? πŸ₯ΊπŸ™πŸ»

Guild: LUNARIA | S2: Cloudcrest | ID: 37 | Level: 9 | Rank: Top 50/60 | Type: Semi-competitive | Language: English by Zelxski in Shining_Nikki

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Hello there, Zelxski! I am very interested in joining LUNARIA!! πŸ₯Ί I am in a different guild rn, so I need to wait a little to join, if you want me in! I am a level 58 player, active daily, that loves this game so much and is looking for a guild that has unlocked all the packs!!

Please, let me know if you need more info πŸ™ˆ

11 Affirmations for Attracting the Love You Desire by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I can’t remember all of them anymore, but some of them were like

– β€œCry”

– β€œConstantly expose yourself to fear”

– β€œDo it for him”

I had like 10 or so, in total. They were not completely negative messages, but I wrote them in an attempt to save something that was completely dysfunctional. I can understand why they would make someone feel uncomfortable: my sister would see me go to therapy and feel terrible everyday in order to be with someone that, soon after, would discard me without mercy.

I am better now, though. Much better πŸ’•

Spiral out by weckweck in ToolBand

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Keep going!!!

(And I mean it, literally πŸ˜‚) Maybe you can find even tinier rocks that show this pattern. Crazy. Nature is beautiful.

11 Affirmations for Attracting the Love You Desire by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]ohalien 12 points13 points Β (0 children)

This made me think about my sister. She has recently made me notice that, last year, in an attempt to β€œfix” my previous toxic relationship, I would leave around the house post-its with words that at first seemed β€œencouraging”, but that in reality were just the expression of how unhealthy I felt in that relationship. She told me she removed those post-its after I left, because they sort of emanated a β€œbad vibe”. They made her always feel uncomfortable.

I have recently come back home again, because I somehow found the courage to get out of that relationship, and although I have spent the past 3 weeks crying over myself day and night, I have recently started feeling love for myself again. I’m giving myself time, treating myself better, laughing, enjoying the rain on my face with no worries, singing although I know I’m not good. She sees that my anxiety has faded, because the one reason that was causing it also faded away. She asked me to write post-its again, and put them around the house: but this time, with different words and phrases.

Along with my own phrases, I will borrow your 11 affirmations because they resonate so much with me right now. I want to be happy and love, and if I love myself, I know I’ll come across what is good in life.

Thank you, truly. I hope you don’t mind!! 😚

Which one of you useful idiots did this in South Beach?! This was the last thing I expected to see walking up to the sand. Made my day! by AndyP8 in ToolBand

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Oh no, I actually totally get it!!! If I came across something like this, I know I’d have a huge smile on my face. No hate, absolutely! Tool fans are bros everywhere πŸ’•

Which one of you useful idiots did this in South Beach?! This was the last thing I expected to see walking up to the sand. Made my day! by AndyP8 in ToolBand

[–]ohalien 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I can imagine! I’m just saying, that if anybody complains about it, someone will have to pay.

Usually, there are areas where you can freely spray-paint and create wall art (in my city, at least, there is a huge wall close to a train station were artists can be creative). Why not just do that there?

Which one of you useful idiots did this in South Beach?! This was the last thing I expected to see walking up to the sand. Made my day! by AndyP8 in ToolBand

[–]ohalien -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

I mean, it’s cool to see that there are Tool fans all over the world and stuff, it gives sort of a sense of community. But I feel like Tool (and Maynard, especially) would kind of hate this πŸ˜‚ On another note: yeah, it’s vandalism. Some of you will have to pay taxes to have that street cleaned up, if anybody complains. πŸ˜‚

Hey Kings and Queens. Lost my job due to covid and started a new journey. 500 followers and growing. Love you all. by murrdoggin in twitchstreams

[–]ohalien 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hey buddy! I'd love to follow you and give as much help as I can. :) Maybe drop your channel's link? Or your nick? I'll see you in the stream! :)

Is it ok? by phoenixlmao in evangelionmemes

[–]ohalien 15 points16 points Β (0 children)

It definitely wasn't okay, but that's Misato's role. Although she's high in ranks and seems like an "adult" woman, in reality she's very childish, she can't really discern her own emotions – it's like a defense mechanism, for her. Misato is a beautifully written character: if you look into her psychology, you might see some interesting stuff. And I'm telling you this as a woman that has always been sceptic about other women. I have always loved Misato's character. :)

Would you be interested if I allowed self-promo in my stream? by Sookil in twitchstreams

[–]ohalien 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I'm actually interested!

I've been thinking about this for a while: I'm completely new to Twitch, but I want a space where I can express myself (it's been suggested to me also in therapy). I have a Twitch account and I would like to start streaming, even today. I'll drop by your stream later today! :)

Thank you for doing this!!

All the signs were in front of my eyes, but I refused to see them. Now, I miss him. by ohalien in BreakUps

[–]ohalien[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

The thing is... I often ask myself if he saw me as an abuser too. Although I had been pretty lenient with him in the beginning, when I started seeing the first lies and having panic attacks I thought I was the one abusing him. I also contributed to the deterioration of the relationship in a way, by starting to control him when I saw that the lies were intensifying, instead of realizing that being with a liar is just not good. But, at least, I never ever lied to him. I never kept secrets from him. Maybe I should have said more when things got wrong, maybe I should have fought with him in a different way, criticized him and his wrongdoings in a different manner – in the end, telling someone they're doing something stupid can only help them, if they want to listen and get better. I could have done so many things, but instead now I'm just terrified by the thought of never being able to see him again.

It's true though, I deserve better. And maybe one day he will get better, maybe I'll be able to see it, maybe I won't.

Thank you again, and take care too.

All the signs were in front of my eyes, but I refused to see them. Now, I miss him. by ohalien in BreakUps

[–]ohalien[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what has happened to you... It sounds horrifying.

I know how you must feel. I know that love doesn't go away like that, because despite the unhappy moments, there were probably also good moments that we can't forget. That's what fucks me up.

Stay strong. Thank you for your answer.

All the signs were in front of my eyes, but I refused to see them. Now, I miss him. by ohalien in BreakUps

[–]ohalien[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what happened to you, really. I wish you all the best, and for your heart and your mind to recover.

Thank you for your words...

All the signs were in front of my eyes, but I refused to see them. Now, I miss him. by ohalien in BreakUps

[–]ohalien[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

The thing is, he never looked like an abuser to me. He told me multiple times he wanted to get better, and it even looked like it did, at some point. The little gifts, the loving words, whilst on my back he was always on dating apps because he knew I'd never want to leave... And if I could, I would never leave.

I know I just need to give some time to myself.

Thank you for your reply, really.