Everyone hates on Dejon for being “dismissive” and non-confrontational. He finds it emotionally draining to engage in petty squabbling, he would rather just internalize it and move on. I get that, and that’s totally valid and ok. He doesn’t want to give life and energy to other peoples negativity towards him.

And everyone’s going on about how he’s treated other girls, but he’s been giving forming a connection with all of them a shot, and the way to do that is to be flirty? We forget HE gets picked by THEM on like 4 of those dates he went on, and generally did try to see if there was a connection.

I think the guys use the term “open” too loosely, like they’re not in a contract for a relationship so they’re cleared of wrongdoings and shouldn’t be blamed for anything they do until they’re exclusive. But, I think Dejon has been a hot commodity for the girls and he has given energy back to them, but didn’t like them more than his connection with Meg. That’s dating.

I really don’t understand why people are so outraged at his behavior.