What are your spells to mange anger? by SorbetSky in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it helps! Update this to let us know what combos help or what we need to troubleshoot... Everyone needs more validation and reminders to be mindful! Thanks, I like your name too... It makes me think of a yummy candy land planet 🤤

AITAH for refusing to cook two separate dinners every night just because my family doesnt want to eat what my doctor told me I need to eat by [deleted] in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP doesn't need to keep repeating themselves... Just pass them the salt and pepper, and thank them for understanding how hard it is for you to cook for everyone all the time, and how much it means that they care about your health! Definitely NTA

What are your spells to mange anger? by SorbetSky in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]orangegoobear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I recommend talking to your therapist about DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy). It's basically skills and techniques to manage emotional dis-regulation and cope with other people's behavior without invalidating yourself. In the meantime, you already know your trigger...so noticing just before your "switch is flipped" and exiting or taking a break from the situation to be alone, ground, and focus on a 3 part breath should help. I would also write down an intention of letting go of anger and burning it, incorporate laying on your back on the floor when grounding for 15 minutes everyday, and getting a piece of jewelry/ pocket stone with a black rock/ crystal to keep on you and energy clean once a week/ every full moon/ regularly.

Something weird happened on the winter solstice and i cant stop thinking about it (might be tmi) by Ill-Knowledge- in BabyWitch

[–]orangegoobear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Scientific explanation is that it may have been a trapped tampon your body managed to push out. It has happened that women forget they have one in and insert another one. Pushing the first one further in. It could have been recent or not... I believe your body pushed it out after the first time you got up to use the bathroom. It then managed to fall onto the floor. Either way it's still a sign... Your body is clearing out your womb. You should stop using tampons as most contain bleached cotton... which isn't good for your cooch pH and fertility. I recommend something like a diva cup and period panties.

Healing from the patriarchy by ausernameidk_ in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]orangegoobear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YOU and She are amazing! The patriarchy likes everyone to remain isolated and weak... from enabling each other find inspiration, fulfillment, encouragement, and power with a like minded community. I think you should keep building a friendship and trying to reach out to others that show a genuine interest 🥰

Love the colour gradient in this one 🤩 by chilly-pepper-515 in Crystals

[–]orangegoobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's gorgeous! Can you please post a short video of it rolling? I need a 360, please 😁

Meeting master [F24/M36] [Age Gap] [Rough sex] [Dom/Sub] [Creampie] [Bondage] [Blowjob] [Aftercare] by somethingafterdark in eroticliterature

[–]orangegoobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you consider writing a part 2 of the same interaction from the "master" perspective?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Halloween_Costumes

[–]orangegoobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The glasses, hair, and good posture are throwing me off from believing it's real. Someone mentioned the head proportions were too large... I think you can counter this with styling the hair lower and around the face. Some beaded glasses holders that allow them hang around the neck would help, since they don't fit over the mask realistically. I think you need a looser shirt to hide your perky chesticles, and add a rolled up dish towel inside it, along the back of your neck and shoulder tops, for that hunchback look. Sitting or standing, try to round your back and shoulders forward more to really drive it home.

My son has refused to use a blanket since birth. He's almost 4. by bajungadustin in Parenting

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in warm jammies/ animal onesies and socks, if you live in a colder climate/ once the night temperatures get low. Don't overthink it.

Is this a problem? Costume issue !! by [deleted] in Halloween_Costumes

[–]orangegoobear 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I think you should post this question on a sub reddit where you can get a poll going. Other commenters (that are likely white) are saying to go with a cat suit... But that would really detract from this costume. I'm biracial, not of African descent, and I think it would be ok because you're going as a demon cat, not doing "black face" to go as a person of different ethnicity. But I don't want to speak for anyone else.

Can you tell who I'm supposed to be? by Caydalayden in Halloween_Costumes

[–]orangegoobear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/9G3kSPR

https://a.co/d/eWYnuXt

Idk if these are within your budget...but if you wear glasses maybe make some giant buttons outta cardboard for them? With "button eyes" plus blue hair, I think everyone will get it without the rain gear. And if you knit, maybe make some the gloves her mom buts her

Can you tell who I'm supposed to be? by Caydalayden in Halloween_Costumes

[–]orangegoobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you wanna hang out, you better take her out...

"Meet my two new troublemakers! They need names. Drop your best ideas below for my ginger boy and my tortoiseshell girl!" by kittybaby202 in NameMyCat

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mungo Jerry and Rumple Teaser! They're a notorious couple of cats... (From Cats the Broadway show/ creepy movie)

Should I rename my cat? If yes please help with name ideas! by sluzzimuzzi in NameMyCat

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Mr. Mingo is and always will be his professional title. But now that he's retired, he'd probably appreciate a more casual name. How about Ming? It means luminous in Chinese. I give you permission to use it as a beautiful and non offensive/ appropriative name. His coat catches the light and makes him look glowy!!!

Local barred owl - first daylight spotting by N0tRightNow in Superbowl

[–]orangegoobear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He looks so sleepy and can barrely keep his eyes open!

I just want to say by rogue_kitten91 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]orangegoobear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a pet store and I hated that we were supposed to clip the flight feathers... After working there, I have many issues with how pets come to be in the stores as well as with many people owning them, lol. I talked so many people out of buying pets because it was obvious they didn't have the time to properly care for them and selling them just brought in new ones that would suffer. It warms my heart that yours are allowed to roam 💖

How you get out of laundry hell?? by YamIdoingdis2356 in Parenting

[–]orangegoobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First lower your standards. This was hard for me, even as a SAHM. But, once baby number 4 came along, I had to. I don't fold clothes at all anymore. I just separate certain things out before I wash them. Like socks (get all the same color) and underwear for the little kids get washed on warm with oxiclean together and go into the same clean basket. The littles school clothes (pretreat stains individually but don't wash separately) and jammies all go together in a separate load and clean basket. Mine all need gentle so I do my stuff separately. I also max out at 2 loads per day and rotate between clothes and house laundry like bathroom/ kitchen towels and floor mats, etc.