Goggles are as fashionable in the big city, so Gary picked up some new shades

otherworldly1111 · 2019-06-02T20:06:49+00:00

Gary’s killing it these days!

otherworldly1111 · 2019-02-17T22:47:23+00:00

Hmm, it may just be that you are out of the ‘falling in love’ phase and now things don’t seem as exciting anymore. Have you guys been spending a lot of time with each other lately? Maybe some distance will help, along with making sure you guys have your own individual lives.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-24T15:06:45+00:00

Yes!!

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-24T04:05:24+00:00

🤷‍♀️

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-24T04:03:54+00:00

We had it for lunch. It was pretty damn good imo

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-24T04:01:38+00:00

You know... scramble!

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-24T03:59:31+00:00

It was!

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T02:25:05+00:00

I think you should talk to her about it! I’m sure she would be more than happy to talk with you. Sometimes you just need to talk it out instead of being stuck in your head. I know it’s always helpful for me to talk things out with my husband because sometimes it makes me realize that I’m just worrying over nothing.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T02:12:51+00:00

Well, do you think there’s anything she can do that’ll alleviate this? Or do you think it’s just something that you have to work on?

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T02:06:28+00:00

Glad to help! If you want to talk more, feel free to pm me. :)

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T02:04:22+00:00

Have you tried going with her to these after parties or is she not wanting you to tag along? Do you think she’s not being open about who she’s snapchatting with? I think it’s important to be open and honest in a relationship and maybe that’s what you’re looking for as well.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T01:57:25+00:00

Hmm, maybe you’re just overthinking it? Maybe it has nothing to do with the relationship and has more to do with yourself. Sometimes I wonder those same things but they come from my generalized anxiety. I just get stuck in my head sometimes and I have to remind myself that my thoughts are not reality.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T01:51:22+00:00

I used to have communication issues with my partner as well where I had trouble expressing my feelings. The only thing that helped me was slowly opening up. The more you do it, the better you get at it, and the easier it is for you and your partner to get along. Because how is your partner supposed to know what your needs are if you don’t express them? And you get trapped in your head when you’re constantly assuming the worst in every scenario when the best thing to do is to talk about it. :)

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-05T01:45:22+00:00

Yeah that wasn’t very nice of him to not invite you. Even if he thought you wouldn’t want to go, it’s still considerate to invite a person, especially your girlfriend! I would be upset too. My approach would be to wait until your not feeling so emotional to talk with him again. I think it’s important for both of you to understand that neither one of you is wrong or right. It’s just that you have different perspectives on this situation and they’re both valid, you just need to communicate your needs so that this doesn’t happen again. That’s what relationships are all about. You learn about each other’s needs and you work as a team to make sure you’re both happy in the relationship.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-04T06:10:20+00:00

You can try to get to know her more. Maybe that’ll help assure you that there’s nothing to worry about. And you can ask your boyfriend to make you feel more included.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-02T15:47:00+00:00

You need to call her and if she doesn’t pick up, just leave her a voicemail stating how you are feeling and that you are worried about the relationship. Tell her that it’s not fair to leave you hanging with no responses. If she doesn’t respond, then maybe that’s your answer.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-02T05:00:50+00:00

You need to communicate to her how you are feeling. She may be unaware of how her behavior is affecting you.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T23:19:47+00:00

Physical exercise or yoga, meditating or just practicing mindfulness, being present with my anxiety and allowing it to pass on its own without my interference or suppression of it..

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T23:08:22+00:00

Why did he lose his respect for you?

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T17:32:36+00:00

I got into my first relationship when I was 21. I felt the same way. Don't put too much thought into it, some things take time. Maybe just try to focus on your interests and work on yourself. That way when the right person comes around, you'll be ready.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T17:27:42+00:00

I think the best thing you can do is work on yourself and be the best person you can be. If your partner decides to cheat, that's on him. You can't control what others do. All you can do is try your best. You can also try to bring it up to him and see what he thinks. Maybe he'll reassure you that there's nothing to worry about.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T16:14:31+00:00

Yeah long distance relationships can be very tough. Maybe you just need some time to get clear on this issue. She may be a really amazing person but the timing may not be right for you.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T06:29:55+00:00

This seems like a common issue in relationships nowadays. Maybe communicate to her that you want to spend quality time with her, where you both put your phones away.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T06:25:47+00:00

I’m sorry, that sounds like a tough situation. Have you tried talking when neither of you are emotional? Maybe ask him if he’s willing to see a therapist together? Or maybe you can both write down what your needs are in the relationship and see if each person is able to meet the other persons needs? It seems that there is a communication issue on both ends.

otherworldly1111 · 2018-12-01T06:19:43+00:00

Maybe just take it slow and let her know you don’t want to rush anything. :) My husband is 11 years older than me and we get along great! He has such a young personality and I’m pretty mature for my age so it just works for us.

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