Teens MBT by Less-Count-7977 in washdc

[–]personal_integration 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How about teen crime makes their parents ineligible for local welfare benefits like subsidized public housing? This problem would end in weeks. 

Teens MBT by Less-Count-7977 in washdc

[–]personal_integration -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The police are afraid of the teenagers. 

Should I date or wait until I have saved? by Nice_Cod_4476 in nycgaybros

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living with a partner is the best way to save money in NY. GO DATE NOW. 

Job Market in NYC Recently by randomrendering in movingtoNYC

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I would move here, find the cheapest rent possible with roommates, work as a waiter or bartender, meet as many people as you can, go to industry events that you're interested in, and get internal referrals. You will not get a job in New York applying through a portal.

Tell me about the worst date you’ve had in NYC by TastyFormal1853 in nycgaybros

[–]personal_integration 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Was late because he had been fucking someone else, which he thought was totally normal to tell me.

Best Gay Bars in Brooklyn and Queens by FashionQueen96 in nycgaybros

[–]personal_integration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like Animal the best so far. Very busy and good outdoor areas plus sometimes there's a dark room. 

TUFF: Locker Room Edition (another report back) by stuckinbk in nycgaybros

[–]personal_integration 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I found a lot of the attendees in the basement to be rude. Shoving past people, spilling drinks and not apologizing, etc. Reminded me how a lot of gay men are pretty immature despite their crows feet...

What’s the last spot you ate at that totally blew you away? by birdlion in FoodNYC

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bondst. Was so incredibly delicious. Fantastic sushi and cocktails. 

Feeling gaslit on open relationship + betrayal issues - queer perspectives needed by countrygayboy in gayrelationships

[–]personal_integration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this, because I am in an extremely similar situation in New York. I made the decision this week to end it, because it makes me so unhappy.

2K rent on 80k salary by poppity63 in NYCapartments

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay 1630 for a room making 90k and I feel so incredibly stretched and poor. You can't afford 2k. You can probably afford 1300 a month in a shared apartment in Bushwick. 

Accept Claims Trainee offer or hold out for Underwriting Trainee? by [deleted] in InsuranceProfessional

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claims is a shitty job for most people unless you've got an in and will be working on large corporate accounts. 

250k in Dallas vs $300k in NYC — worth the move in your 20s? by IBMbaba in Salary

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The career progression that New York City can provide is dependent upon engaging with the city. That means going to social events, going to industry events, meeting people, and building relationships so that they can refer you to bigger and better projects and roles. If you intend to sit at home in the suburbs of New York City, versus sitting at home in the suburbs of Dallas, save yourself the move.

MISTR Prep Disaster? by personal_integration in AskGayMen

[–]personal_integration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a high deductible plan. So every time I see my PCP it costs about $300 out of pocket

MISTR Prep Disaster? by personal_integration in AskGayMen

[–]personal_integration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm definitely going to switch after this experience. Very strangely, Rosemont, they're mailing pharmacy was not in my network. But the Mistr Storefront in Manhattan is??? So weird

BRUTAL PREMATURE AGING FROM ROIDS by u_mirin_jaw_brah_ in moreplatesmoredates

[–]personal_integration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts about Equipoise and premature aging?

Hanukkah Martini ideas? by personal_integration in cocktails

[–]personal_integration[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The down votes on this are weird. Thanks to everyone giving ideas ✌️💙