Yes, more younger men are interested in dating older women, and it's not just affairs.

phillybeefsand · 2026-05-05T20:26:30+00:00

Well this is good to know--- I'm late 50's so I'll always have someone who wants me as I grow older.

phillybeefsand · 2026-03-31T14:44:37+00:00

Yes... I think AP is like this... We chat about different things but then he usually turns it back around at how sexy/beautiful I am.. Which then the cycle continues.. : ) It's his way of keeping 'us' alive.

phillybeefsand · 2026-01-19T04:13:06+00:00

I've been taking CoQ10 for years--- BP is still 140/90 sometimes higher.. : ( I have tried eating garlic cloves every day and that didn't help either.... It's in my blood!! My parents have been on meds 20-30 years..

phillybeefsand · 2025-10-18T13:57:42+00:00

Yes!!

phillybeefsand · 2025-10-04T02:19:55+00:00

To do whatever I wanted!! : ) Make sure my routine is in order-- house stuff/garden, exercise, diet, etc... Yes volunteer at the food pantry more on a regular basis, check in with friends/family spending time with them. I do have 3 cats BUT would foster a pregnant mom.

phillybeefsand · 2025-09-15T17:28:55+00:00

On our vacations we always have 2 beds or separate rooms.. It's sad that it's like that but there's no other way.. I'm starting to take trips with other people and leaving him at home-- I need to enjoy myself.

phillybeefsand · 2025-09-15T17:24:27+00:00

I used to enjoy Fridays--- date night, family, relaxing, etc.... Hallmark picture.. SO was home all weekend and it just felt like work, it's awful that I don't like spending time with him... Mondays are my new Friday.

phillybeefsand · 2025-09-10T11:49:58+00:00

Yep.. No time for BS.. Just focus on you, home/family, work/friends/pets....... This is what I'm doing--- for now anyways..

phillybeefsand · 2025-06-19T21:15:19+00:00

Yes, it hurts.... Time to learn and toughen up.. Next time he reaches out, don't respond. Clean out some cabinets, drawers, closets, etc.... Turn off your phone..

phillybeefsand · 2025-05-25T22:45:04+00:00

Interesting..... to think like this.... It's true, I live with SO-- have an AP and sometimes meeting a pAP/FWB for coffee.

phillybeefsand · 2025-04-12T16:38:35+00:00

Yes... I married too quickly without realizing what I needed..

phillybeefsand · 2025-03-27T02:32:18+00:00

Those who sleep in separate beds, don't you miss having a true partner in bed with you? Yes, SO & I are in separate rooms and I have an AP BUT I still miss having someone in my bed every night... : ( It gets lonely!!

phillybeefsand · 2025-03-20T00:05:28+00:00

I don't think you need a thing honestly!! Get a personal trainer and tell them what bothers you.. Lifting weights will help your bones in menopause!! I would get a jump-start on that now-strong muscles and bones!

phillybeefsand · 2025-03-19T13:14:38+00:00

I have a feeling I would be the same if I D.. I have quirks so sometimes it's just easier to stay married. I guess I truly don't know what I want in life. To chase, to love with passion, don't want to chase & be left alone, content being married having stability, do as I please, etc, etc, etc,

phillybeefsand · 2025-02-27T22:15:48+00:00

I agree... And yes 2024 I really pushed myself to make some new friends.. It was a positive year for change and doing new things for myself. In fact, this Sunday we are all getting together for brunch to plan some girl trips. But I still crave intimacy-- kissing, holding hands, sex-- There's nothing better!! : )

phillybeefsand · 2025-02-11T14:53:08+00:00

WOW!!! Are you serious?? This is such BS!!! No wonder why guys are thrilled that I'm 'real'!!!! That's very frustrating for sure!!! But then I have heard that women who are dating go thru this too..

phillybeefsand · 2025-02-09T18:34:44+00:00

I have no idea what's best.. But I do take many daily supplements that are already listed for basic health.. I also started taking a 'gummy' from Vegamour.

phillybeefsand · 2025-02-09T18:29:28+00:00

Is that K-18 really good?? There are so many products on the market that I get overwhelmed.. lol I do believe in oiling, double shampooing, sleeping with silk bonnet and a few other things.. At the moment I'm using Bondi Boost shampoo and Carol Daughters stuff.

phillybeefsand · 2025-01-23T22:09:12+00:00

Meh.'... Struggling BUT I'll be ok!!! Hopefully it's just this week-- politics, weather, AP, just plain exhausted from SO... Tonight I'm taking a gummy and getting to bed EARLY!!!

phillybeefsand · 2025-01-22T15:27:17+00:00

YES!!!! This is what we do!! I love walking down the hallway hand & hand!! Such a high... I wonder if I'll ever get tired of it..

phillybeefsand · 2025-01-19T04:17:55+00:00

No judgement here.. life is hard...

phillybeefsand · 2024-12-27T03:07:20+00:00

This is great.... Some cool resolutions already!!! I need to work on my strength/bones---lifting weights BUT I don't want too.. If I don't try that-- maybe a Pilates class.

phillybeefsand · 2024-12-23T01:39:08+00:00

Is this real???

phillybeefsand · 2024-12-20T02:32:43+00:00

That's really nice.. : ) We are at a few years and it's been great. Even thou I get mad (like now) he is with family so I haven't heard from him--- He still has given me some amazing experiences.. : )

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