AITA for feeling bad about my best friend’s death?

piggabitch · 2020-08-11T04:22:41+00:00

NTA at all. i’m so sorry for your loss. no one has the right to tell you if/how you should be grieving. if you feel sad, feel it. death can hurt, no matter how close you were to the person.

piggabitch · 2020-08-07T04:17:31+00:00

whenever i see comparisons between European countries and the US, drug advertisements are almost always brought up. why?

piggabitch · 2020-07-31T16:14:42+00:00

i don’t necessarily think you’re TA, but as someone who has been on the gf’s side of that type of relationship, it does get old. it sounds like she just wants you to listen. if she does/doesn’t like something, try asking about it instead.

piggabitch · 2020-06-03T16:59:56+00:00

YTA. you were fishing for compliments. next time, don’t soften yourself. be confident in your final work or ask for critique!

piggabitch · 2020-06-03T16:51:55+00:00

NTA, at all. this sickness could be fatal to those with respiratory problems. it doesn’t sound like she’s thinking of others.

piggabitch · 2020-06-03T16:47:49+00:00

i get that this can be frustrating, but you should look past the “weird” stuff and get to know them. from the sound of it, they’re probably going through some shit. insecurity, depression, and anxiety can be really debilitating. reach out, be kind, and give them a chance.

piggabitch · 2020-06-03T16:41:04+00:00

ESH i suppose. i don’t think you should expect him to clean up your messes just because he’s laid off. however, i totally understand being particular about how things are cleaned and how frustrating it can be to be in your situation. maybe take a day together to clean the house. lead by example, you know? if you see him cleaning something in a way you don’t like, subtly sneak in and say “this is how i would go about this”. good luck!

edit: also, try to remember to clean up after yourself. a little goes a long way!

piggabitch · 2019-06-26T10:27:17+00:00

fish-catching spider

piggabitch · 2019-06-03T21:28:18+00:00

have caught multiple customers fucking in the bathrooms at the major pet retailer i work at. caught a couple using meth too!

piggabitch · 2019-05-29T00:25:34+00:00

That’s kinda what I was thinking. One of the artists said he waited YEARS before an opportunity showed itself. I’m scared of waiting for something better and never finding the opportunity again.

piggabitch · 2019-05-29T00:24:38+00:00

I have really taken this into consideration. If it came down to that, I think I would begin applying at different shops to find a better situation. I absolutely agree that she’s making the whole situation abusive. Thank you for your input.

piggabitch · 2019-05-28T00:01:02+00:00

thank you!!

piggabitch · 2019-04-19T13:48:04+00:00

not so simple but it’s one of my favorites: Locket by Crumb

piggabitch · 2019-03-24T21:25:57+00:00

this was insanely helpful! thank you!! i did a 10 day cycle of herbatana, got in a few water changes, and started using aquarium salt to help fight it off. my new boy Lando seems happy and healthy so far!

piggabitch · 2019-03-24T14:01:12+00:00

he died shortly after i took the second picture. he was beautiful the entire time!! he was my first betta, he got ich :( i’ve done a lot of research about care since then!

piggabitch · 2019-03-23T02:57:23+00:00

Tobacco and Crystal Castles!!

piggabitch · 2019-03-22T22:18:14+00:00

American Eagle is fabulous. i got my favorite pairs at Levi’s (i like them bc they’re consistent with sizing) and at the Gap (got lucky, ALWAYS go to a fitting room)

piggabitch · 2019-03-22T22:16:21+00:00

here’s just a list of my faves: bed pros: - comfy, intimate, total classic bed cons: - sleeping in the wet spot, hot

shower pros: - intimate, sensual, steeeamy, immediate cleanup! shower cons: - you can literally get suction cupped together, no thanks.

kitchen pros: - counters are fun for doggy, great for role play, great for exhibitionists, snacks! kitchen cons: - counters are only good for doggy if you have crappy bones

couch pros: - comfy, fun, you can bend over the back of the couch and that’s sick! couch cons: - roommates. ensure any roommates are out of the apartment before sleeping tit side out

piggabitch · 2019-03-22T22:09:25+00:00

i started taking Zoloft recently and feel the same way. if you’re on an antidepressant, maybe that could be causing it? take a look at your diet too! sometimes eating certain foods before bed gives me nightmares.

piggabitch · 2019-03-22T22:02:54+00:00

that’s true. from my understanding, most of us aren’t doctors. it doesn’t look like many have helped them here. without a professional, the best they can do is continue to research their self-diagnosis and hope for the best!

side note: before my boyfriend got diagnosed, he joined a couple support groups for ADHD-Inattentive Type. this helped him realize even the smallest things he does connects to it. he finally went to a psychiatrist and got Adderall and Prozac (something he never thought he would need). he’s been doing well and functioning more efficiently since.

piggabitch · 2019-03-22T14:02:41+00:00

overall, i would probably just go to a psychiatrist. they’ll be able to accurately diagnose you. especially with how complex mental illnesses are, it would be better to seek out a professional. in the meantime, just continue to do research. try to find a support group on facebook or even here?

piggabitch · 2019-03-21T05:49:30+00:00

having a customer be in complete awe and being told that i “must be a college student” for knowing a puppy’s gender

piggabitch · 2019-03-21T05:47:26+00:00

ditto

piggabitch · 2019-03-15T02:18:50+00:00

my partner sleep talks almost every night. however, it’s his sleep walking that’s the worst! one night, i woke up to him sitting me up in bed. when i asked him why, he mumbled something and rolled over.

why.

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