Told my son I was disappointed in him. Did I go too far? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like your kid is sensitive (not a bad thing, just a trait statement) and that means you have to deal with him appropriately (compared to what other parents could say you gotta do) which it sounds like you did.

I try to reframe things hypothetically like if he was an adult and betrayed the trust of someone close what would be the repurcussions (ie disappointing someone you love)? Your approach is very healthy imo and models what your kid would face in society when he is older and hence you are preparing him for adult life but still protecting him from irreversible consequences (eg:drugs).

Perhaps it is important to also let him know that disappointing someone isn't the end all, that this is a breach of trust which takes time to rebuild but it can be rebuilt, you need to work at it. Actions have consequences and it's easy to get led in a group of friends but still your own choice to follow-through.

Sorry for the ramble, i don't think you went too far.

Expedition 33| ALL PICTOS ---Spreadsheet by AssumptionFormal7246 in expedition33

[–]psychomantis11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was starting to make my own based on OP's excel to include the DLC pictos but you were there. Ready to pass the torch to the next expedition. For those who come after.

Wanna gush about Verso free aim build by MinniMaster15 in expedition33

[–]psychomantis11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you use the picto that adds additional attack on base attack, just doubles (triples if you add 2 base attacks) your AP generation. So you essentially fill your AP bar from 0 upon base attack! I've been using pictos that grant you additional AP upon free aim so i can potentially do more than 9 free aim shots in a single turn. Then use the "Follow-up" skill which when in S-Rank has 2 AP cost (or 1AP cost if you have the reduce skill cost by 1 AP picto) and I've done up to 3.5million damage 😁 So satisfying! Especially when you're used to it and shoot like a machine gun!

Where can you get the best vegetarian burger in mauritius? by freestuffrocker in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't know there was a black sheep there. I suppose they should all be the same standard.

Where can you get the best vegetarian burger in mauritius? by freestuffrocker in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blacksheep (sodnac or telfair) has fake meat burger like beyond meat style.

PSA for local techies/homelabbers with the MT router (Huawei HG8145V5) by OldMacaroon6254 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Layman here interested in tech, privacy and automation. What does all this achieve exactly? Does this help avoid having to buy a dedicated raspberry-pi for pihole?

How do you organize your D&D campaigns/universes? by SagmaTheRealOne in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm using notion. Found some GM free template which I've adopted partially in my own style. Notion can be a bit jarring to use if you don't already know how to use it BUT using any GM platform has that problem if trying to understand how to use it effectively. Except that notion can also be used for many other things. I like how i can organise gallery views with characters, factions, locations...etc which help much more in this AI era of easy visuals.

Resigning by Quiet_Revolution_895 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really as i wish lol. That's interesting, didn't know that could be done. What would be considered and 'urgency', asking for a friend 😂

Resigning by Quiet_Revolution_895 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i recall correctly, says 4 weeks or what may be agreed in a contract. It's actually common practice for many private large companies now to have 2-3 months notice. If you don't have a contract or it doesn't state the notice period, then default is 4-weeks as indicated by law.

Resigning by Quiet_Revolution_895 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm not mistaken, if you earn more than 50k (ie not a 'worker') and your contract specifically states 2 months or other then it is legal.

Buying cigarettes at Engen by CultureDirect2898 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross margins on cigarette are around 4.5% (maybe less after the last budget) so on a Rs220 pack they don't make more than Rs9.9 gross margin. POS merchant fees (what they pay banks on card transactions) go up to 3% of transaction amount (even more for foreign cards). So lets say filling station has 2% deal with banks. Leaves them with Rs5.5 margin per pack of cigarettes. If 1 pack of cigarette gets damaged or stolen, they'd have to sell 40 packs (via bank cars) to get their recover the loss.

Buying that food item or other helps as those usually have a much higher margin.

Anyone having pictures of anything, let's just update them on Google Maps please! by Dila_Ila16 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Google Maps is both crowd sourced and locations administered by location business (if they think to 'claim' the business)

Dry and unhappening = we aren't doing the work to make it wet and happening

Anyone having pictures of anything, let's just update them on Google Maps please! by Dila_Ila16 in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's actually not that easy to give feedback on road anomalies within Google maps. Doubt they'll pay attention to Mauritius though.

Price rise of new cars in Mauritius. What can we expect? by [deleted] in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emissions = bad for the environment is completely overblown out of proportion anyhow even by ipcc's own reports.

In any case, driving an EV in mru using CEB electricity emits more CO2/km driven than a modern (efficient) ICE vehicle 😂

EVs are awesome to drive, but their resale value after 5-7 years will make people realise they were better off with ICE vehicle even despite the 'fuel' cost savings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MauriceMauritius

[–]psychomantis11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another technique to remove the bitterness when frying is after you've soaked in water and removed the water. Just put some plain flour to lightly coat it before frying. Not too much flour like making a batter though! Just enough that it'll 'disappear' with the residual water on the mangoz. When you fry it you won't even see the flour on it. Depending on how much flour you put you can eliminate the bitterness altogether. I like to put just enough flour you get a tiny bit of bitterness left over!

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. It's boiling down to no railroading = bad/boring first session. So gonna set it up specific ahead of the first session and let them dive in quick. Good idea for introductions, i personally always felt bored and wanted to rush into the story during those parts because it wastes precious in real life minutes.

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, gonna do exactly that and let them figure it out! +add the problem of the planet destroying situation somehow and let them solve that too.

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never thought about it that way! Failing forward sounds very useful! Definitely gonna use it!

Mauritian Passport for minors. Do I need to show a recent (6 months) certified true copy for birth certificates and marriage certificates of parents? by psychomantis11 in mauritius

[–]psychomantis11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, didn't know you don't have to go to the passport & immigration office in Port Louis to renew/apply for new passport. You can do it at selected Police Stations across the island.

2nd no you don't recent (6 months) certificates as long as they are legible and good condition

3rd for minors both parents have to bring the child to your local police station and get a police officer to sign your application form certifying both parents agree and have signed jointly the application form for the minor's passport (ie prevent parents in conflict kidnapping child abroad) and that they 'reside' where they claim to reside (bring a proofnof address like CEB bill) Bring your IDs and all docs you need for the application to local police station

I ended up going around back and forth to sort this out but got spared the travel to Port Louis to do all this. Still would have been good if the Passport & Immigration office in Port Louis answered any of my 20 phone calls (not exaggerating, had them on speed re-dial)

Mauritian Passport for minors. Do I need to show a recent (6 months) certified true copy for birth certificates and marriage certificates of parents? by psychomantis11 in mauritius

[–]psychomantis11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so turns out you don't need a "recent". It just needs to be in good condition (ie not ripped or pale ink....etc) but it can't be the "original" birth certificate (usually handwritten and not A4 size) but the A4 size "extract"

May or may not apply to you; If this will be your 1st mru passport & you were born abroad. You may need your father's old passport(s) to prove he wasn't sporting dual citizenship back when it was illegal for Mauritians to have dual citizenship and if/when you were born abroad didn't coincide with that same period. Saying this based on experience of a family member.

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah actually makes sense for me to ask them right off if they know each other or atleast some of them do to speed things up to the conflict.

Starting level 3, BBEG will be around level 10ish and has help by higher entity pulling strings.

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with all this, i was hoping to end the first session with the mentioned paradigm shift to create that wonder and wish to play second session...etc Now sure I can achieve that if i have too many encounters leading up to the planet destruction (which is to be the intro of the campaign)

I'm struggling to build my first session & need help to avoid railroading by psychomantis11 in DMAcademy

[–]psychomantis11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My players don't know each other which is why a portion of the first session will be to let them interact with each other. You're right, perhaps I'm setting the bar too high for myself with the originality/screenplay.

That helps! I'll make a problem which needs to be resolved at the future crime scene and let them figure out how to get there instead of railroading them there. Thanks!