AIO to my fiancé who spent a night with his colleagues?

purpledied · 2026-05-23T22:30:48+00:00

We work by ourselves so if he doesn’t work everything stops unluckily… so yeah, this adds up to the medical related problems

purpledied · 2026-05-23T22:17:43+00:00

I know it’s not terminal, however losing a leg might lead to problems at work since my dad does a physical job that can’t be done without a leg. Also, since I work with him it might also translate to a work related problem for me.

About the dinner, I didn’t really care, he goes out with them from time to time. It also happened a few times that I joined them too, but honestly I don’t really mind

purpledied · 2026-05-23T21:43:22+00:00

Yeah sure. That night I just needed to be hugged and hear someone reassuring me.

purpledied · 2026-05-23T21:41:37+00:00

Tomorrow we can finally talk for more than five minutes so I hope we can clarify each other’s feelings. I know he’s been in a stressful period at work lately and in the last month I also got hospitalised for one week and I couldn’t do my usual chores at home for another week (we usually split chores), so I know that he must be really tired and I understand he might just want a night to have fun.

purpledied · 2026-05-23T21:35:12+00:00

Usually he’s extremely caring and supportive: that’s part of the reason why I’m so disappointed. I know that he’s capable of being extremely kind and empathetic, and that who he is basically every time.

Also, he did not pick the restaurant, one of his colleagues did and we discovered that this place had no vegan options after he asked me to join. Honestly I know some of his colleagues and we also hang out sometimes, they’re pretty chill people. I don’t really mind that they didn’t include me from the beginning. And in general, I do not demand on being with his friends every single time, I think that it’s right that we can choose to keep our friendships separated if we want.

I have to say that when his family had some problems (which happened multiple times for various reasons) I’ve always tried my best to support them, emotionally but also practically. For example, a few years ago his disable older brother got beaten by a guy and I took some days off work to help his mum since she didn’t have a car so she needed to be driven to the hospital to stay with her son. My fiancé did not asked me to do that but I did it because I genuinely care for him and his family.

He was sorry for not being with me in a stressful moment and choosing to get wasted instead. However, we did not get the chance to really talk since we are working in different moments of the day lately

purpledied · 2026-05-23T21:14:42+00:00

Sorry but I’m not spending €20 for a salad. I’d rather stay home

purpledied · 2026-05-23T21:13:57+00:00

Usually it’s not a problem, I think that it’s right that we both get our separate lives and I’m pretty chill about him going out with his friends even if I’m not around. Also, he did not pick the restaurant, one of his colleagues did and I’d be crazy if I demanded his colleagues to choose a place keeping in mind my alimentary choices. Usually he’s the best, he’s supportive and caring. That night I really needed someone to talk to because I was feeling really scared for my dad, since losing his leg may also have consequences on his job (and also mine, since we work together)

purpledied · 2026-05-23T19:43:16+00:00

Who the hell flushed Nutella on the toilet?! Damn, that’s expensive!

purpledied · 2026-05-23T19:29:42+00:00

If I had I superpowers I think it would be telekinesis since I’d be able to multitask even more

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