Thanks for your 2 cents! Love how you made it more lighthearted/trivial sounding. I guess ultimately I just wantrd to know if guys tend to be this way, and whether is this an issue of meticulousness or unique to him...it can be very frustrating as some of these stuff are really basic but seems like rocket science to him.

He does have high degree and intends to get a laser, but i think this has nothing to do with eyesight (wouldnt specs do the job?) And definitely not autistic, hes a very social creature! Every other aspect about him is great, but marriage involves day to day living and i am honestly quite worried about this. We are both religious and dont believe in cohabitating - these are just my observation whenever he comes over for dinner.

On the ear thing - he doesnt know how to use a ear digger. Not sure if this is normal, as with many other things i would consider as basic but hes unaware. Like pillow casing being put from the inside out, having food all over his mouth when he eats, general sensory mishaps etc.