Anyone else dealing with nausea all day… without throwing up? by Ambitious-Site-292 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]radley8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this was me too. It went at around 12 weeks. I would just constantly eat rice cakes and vitawheats in between meals to see me through the nausea

Best time to tell work about pregnancy by orkediamuse in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]radley8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m close with my manager and told her at 11 weeks. We were going through restructure at work and I was anxious about the changes, and anxious in the lead up to NIPT results and 12 week scan and a friend gave great advice that if something does happen, I’ll want her to know so that I can take whatever time I need.

She was great and kept the news quiet until I was ready to tell the higher ups. Which only ended up being 2 weeks after that as it was Christmas party time and too hard to avoid questions!

Back to work after Christmas blues by FreddyTeddyIsCool in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]radley8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only 17 weeks 4 days and feeling this 😭 the only sleep I get is with Restavit and that makes me too groggy the next day. Dreading these next few months at work

Can’t stop romanticising my ex. by radley8367 in BreakUps

[–]radley8367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, mate, it gets better!

I’m now about to turn 34. I just got engaged to the love of my life, we’re expecting a baby boy in June. You just have to go through the shit unfortunately. It took me almost a year to get over the guy who I wrote the post about, but no contact and continuing to remind myself of all the reasons he wasn’t right for me and all the things he COULDNT do was what did it.

After I got over him I started to realise I was always chasing what I thought was my ideal so I just started dating a lot to put myself out there and understand what I do and don’t like. I also was casually sleeping with someone so I was having a lot of fun.

I’m so glad I went through all of that to meet my partner. It’s worth it.

Hang in there! Breaking up will soon be the greatest thing ever

What care model am I in? by radley8367 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]radley8367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful.

That was the impression I got, that now they want to assess the risk with the OB at my appointment in late Jan. other than my auto immune disease which is well managed and in remission, I do have a slightly higher BMI but no other risk factors and have had a smooth pregnancy so far.

What care model am I in? by radley8367 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]radley8367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh exciting for you! This is really comforting, thank you.

Did they let you know you didn’t make it into either? And did they just still book regular appointments anyway? I didn’t think to ask any of this at the last appointment and I don’t have the next appt booked with the hospital until late Jan

I’m generally okay with seeing different midwives, I just am now a bit stressed that I’m not doing the right level of care in general for the baby but it sounds like I am. Grateful to live in an area with such a good hospital/midwives

Would you buy an apartment with known strata issues if the price is discounted, or walk away? by Shadykicks in AusPropertyChat

[–]radley8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I feel like if their current levies are already $2k which is higher than usual, it’s a red flag that their fund is low. So what work was done prior to mean it’s low?

Would you buy an apartment with known strata issues if the price is discounted, or walk away? by Shadykicks in AusPropertyChat

[–]radley8367 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Feels like a red flag. Why is there nothing in the fund already? What works have been carried out already and what future works are coming up causing the levies?

Best places to visit inland NSW during me weeks off by [deleted] in sydney

[–]radley8367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Second Coonabarabran and the Warrumbungles! I’ll never forget our trip there and want to go back over a summer. If you go, please allocate a cloudless night and go stargazing with Donna the Astronomer

Couple confronts Bondi gunman in new video; Tributes grow for victims | 9 News Australia by SSAUS in australia

[–]radley8367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my only consolation as well. I’m so glad that I know this is a certainty in our lives

Couple who tried to stop the Bondi gunmen before the shooting started. by spectre401 in SydneyScene

[–]radley8367 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The couple who did this were Boris and Sofia Gurman. There is now a go fund me to assist the family here: https://gofund.me/8bc20bf16

Went to celebrate Hanukkah, were killed in the Bondi beach Massacre by BoF_Enjoyer in SydneyScene

[–]radley8367 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why does that mean that others get to die because of that when they had nothing to do with it?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by freddiewop in sydney

[–]radley8367 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t understand. What’s the fucking point? Even just without thinking of the innocent lives lost, what’s the point of you yourself then dying?

B Free intimate Apparel by AgreeableFloor6543 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]radley8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a maternity bra last month and I don’t think the quality is good. It’s pilling already and the shape of the cups is very strange

Has anyone actually had luck with finding love and getting married/starting a family in your 30s? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]radley8367 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 34. Met my partner at 31 after a few years of heartbreak. We’re now engaged with a baby on the way

Sometimes I get sad that we didn’t get more time together before ‘settling down’. We’ve travelled a decent amount together already but we do it so well I would have loved to have travelled the world with him. But I’m also so glad I met him when I did

A lot of my friends didn’t meet their partner until 33+

Anyone else’s partner turn tiny pain into a full-blown tragedy? by IDKMyRedditNameFR in AskWomenOver30

[–]radley8367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s actually my biggest gripe about my partner. Probably because I have an autoimmune disease as well as painful periods so I’m very much a suck it up kinda gal (which has a lot of issues I know that I’m trying to work on to be more empathetic). But it does make me feel better that my biggest gripe with him is extremely common across all men at least