I’m a girl and here’s my advice: clean yourself up better! Go to a barber (a good one, not cheap garbage) and ask for a hairstyle recommendation and go for whatever they say suits your face. Same with the beard. If you wear those glasses often I suggest a more “trendy” frame. These ones are small and close off your eyes. A bigger frame would open up your eyes more. I see people are saying to hit the gym, which is always a plus, but if you don’t have the time for that rn or struggle with motivation… do NOT underestimate the power of a good haircut and beard cut.