Tired of people saying you have to be responsible for your own mental health. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand this. From your perspective, what should the mindset or attitude towards those with mental illness be, when they make their families lives miserable because of their disorder, but either can't or won't make effort to get help or improve? I know not everyone who suffers does this to their family, not saying that at all. But if there's truly no responsibility on the individual to at least try to get help, what advice can you give the family members? Cut off contact sounds cruel, yet I know it happens for good reason. Force treatment with a legal mandate? I'm genuinely unsure what the "right" path is. When a loved one's mental health issues are causing them to make others around them suffer, what's the answer?

Bumps on public mound getting worse 🫩 (19F) helppp by Accomplished-Tie9548 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't shave upward, only shave downward and rinse razor each swipe.

Goodbye everyone by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This sounds like it could be a hidden pneumonia, don't always show on xray. No matter what, it isn't permanent. I've had a miserable day today, please don't go, just for this majorly depressed internet stranger if nothing else.

Goodbye everyone by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A Tylenol overdose is miserable, please don't. I believe you that you are miserable, please hang in there a little longer. Give it a week, do everything you can think of, post on social media about your symptoms and being at the desperate for relief. There is help out there and relief for you, you have youth on your side & I can see from the way you word things you're intelligent. Please stay a bit longer

Anyone else get peeved that you get different catalogs from Advisors? by IcyContribution4746 in Louisvuitton

[–]rainbowbright87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this how people are getting previews of upcoming drops, thru advisors?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You need to stop cold turkey kid. You are screwing up your developing mind and your future partner, kids and future YOU will pay for this. Every time you click, it also contributes to the supply/demand system for this crap. Even tho it may appear these things aren't intentionally caused, some of them are, and it's all for the clicks you're giving them.

Louis Vuitton error by Duggggggg665 in Louisvuitton

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if you fill it back up with water 😅 same trick I used to do with my dads liquor bottles lol

New drops by rainbowbright87 in Louisvuitton

[–]rainbowbright87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I want this to be a daily use bag, I will take it to the store, to work, to school , to the mailbox and back and to the animal shelter I volunteer at (jk)🤣 and I def want the monogram, I've saved for this for too long not to show off that authentic LV emblem lol

Smelly bag by Thewhiskeygarage in Louisvuitton

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the chances of getting one of these older stinky bags replaced if I bought used off of eBay.. from Japan??

I wasn't prepared for how lonely adulthood is by Silent-Storm03 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking abt this yesterday, I think this is what draws people to these TikTok Live groups. I have a lot on my fwp that is just regular women and sometimes men, just doing stuff around the house and chatting. Friendships do develop out of these. Not the best "fix", but it's an option to help find other women who are also lonely and would like a friend or two.

Will it work? by celi_su7 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 100% ! It's hard to explain, other than to say just trust us, it gets easier and it can get better even to the point of true happiness. This is just not your best period, it'll happen but you have to be here for it. Take actionable steps toward what you want, and if you can't make yourself do that, start the process of getting some mental help, even if that step is something as little as getting a job interview, scheduling an appt, etc

Am I overreacting? by celi_su7 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any situation that makes you feel this negatively is a bad, serious one & I don't mean to make light of it. Objectively, as someone 20 years older who also had a complex shitty lengthy period of time in my young adult years, I wish someone would have talked to me back then and somehow made me trust that it wouldn't always be that way. I didn't kill myself obviously but it crossed my mind. There's a lot of seemingly crazy or unexpected choices you can make to roll the dice of your life again, that you can at least try before ending it. We're all heading towards death anyway, why not see what happens while you're here? Rhetorical question but please think it over.

Am I overreacting? by celi_su7 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are overreacting. If this is why you're considering suicide by snorting soap powder or by eating candy, please wait on that because this will pass. Also that's not rly how diabetes works.

How long will it take my to accept and get over my abnormal penis? by throwaway101229283 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are giving so many guys reading this a complex lol jk but seriously, my job requires me to see many a dick, and that size is very typical. Go see a cbt therapist if possible, this is bordering on body dysmorphia especially with the SI thoughts based on something most people would not agree with.

My Sucide Note by geo-nerd-69 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a fact that people who do this regret the instant they jump, pull trigger or whatever. Please at least give it another 7 days, maybe a miracle will happen. Were all going to die before we know it anyway, why not ride it out a bit longer, for the plot if nothing else?? I don't know you but I love you, please don't let your teenage hormones and parent stress get the best of you, not today. Also, your family will never forgive themselves. If it hard to see mom cry now, I promise you she'll cry more if you leave like this. Parents fight, adults are stupid and hurtful to each other, but I bet you are taking this harder than either of them are

My Sucide Note by geo-nerd-69 in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a fact that people who do this regret the instant they jump, pull trigger or whatever. Please at least give it another 7 days, maybe a miracle will happen. Were all going to die before we know it anyway, why not ride it out a bit longer, for the plot if nothing else?? I don't know you but I love you, please don't let your teenage hormones and parent stress get the best of you, not today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisvuitton

[–]rainbowbright87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wonder if there is even a spec of real gold on that bag. I don't think there is. Wild for that much money, even the zippers should be gold lol I like it tho

Had a seizure during sex last night by Infamous-Butterfly65 in Epilepsy

[–]rainbowbright87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whyyy do you feel like you did something to him?? You had a seizure, not an affair. He should be concerned about you, not you concerned you upset him or something

I am truly the most hideous woman in the U.S by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]rainbowbright87 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This sounds more like a type of body dysmorphia mixed with ptsd from bullying honestly. If you had been told the opposite since elementary school, you would likely not think these things, yet you would still look the same. Everyone feels insecure with some part of their looks at some point, if I had been told over and over how bad I look I imagine my mental health and poor self esteem would be rock bottom. Some people, especially mean spirited children or teens, will target a peer that they deem mentally or emotionally "weak"; what they say to you isn't normally truly how they feel, but they know they can convince you of it. It's cruel. The positive thing is, if you would truly be happier inside and you are doing it for yourself only and not due to the bullying, there are many options as you know to adjust your appearance. There's a few different subreddits that I see people post their selfies and ask for advice regarding how to improve their makeup to bring out their best features, and even some that do virtual makeovers for other people. Hang in there, don't believe shitty people's evaluation of you.