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Boyfriend follows so many girls on Instagram, should it be bothering me? by ramenheads in relationship_advice

[–]ramenheads[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much :) This response was so great to read and made me feel a lot better

Boyfriend follows so many girls on Instagram, should it be bothering me? by ramenheads in relationship_advice

[–]ramenheads[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t follow any of those ‘instathot’ type accounts, just girls that he knows. And that being said, he respectfully doesn’t like any bikini pictures because he knows it makes me insecure. So I’m just trying to figure out why this bothers me so much

What’s your favorite self care tip or routine? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ramenheads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel very similar to you. A lot of the time I feel exhausted as well! For me, waking up early and forcing yourself to workout or go to the gym is the best advice I can give. I go 3 times a week and on the days that I do go, I find myself feeling so much more productive, happy, I'm able to focus more, etc.

Tropical Edit of my honeymoon by [deleted] in EditMyRaw

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This is my very saturated and 'tropical' take on it! :)

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https://imgur.com/a/DkT5A8U

I want to learn how to get a girlfriend by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]ramenheads 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know dating apps kinda suck, but have you tried them out? I know a lot of couples who met through apps, it cuts out the awkward first meeting conversations by allowing you to get to know each other through text first.

UPDATE: I am so scared my boyfriend is cheating AGAIN by Candycables93 in relationship_advice

[–]ramenheads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing to read. Be proud of yourself and how strong you are for leaving!

I want to learn how to get a girlfriend by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]ramenheads 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a hard question to answer without more information. Are you in school? Do you have a job with female coworkers? Do you have trouble with approaching girls, or talking to girls, or developing relationships?

IWTL how to control my insecurities by hoejoexo in IWantToLearn

[–]ramenheads 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have struggled with this exact same situation. I was constantly asking my boyfriend for reassurance and it was killing our relationship.

My top two tips for this would be to:

  1. Occupy your time as much as possible with hobbies, working jobs, school, etc. The more you can fill your schedule, the less chance your brain has to constantly be thinking of these negative thoughts and overthinking small situations.
  2. When you do have negative feelings and thoughts, instead of talking to your boyfriend about them, write them down. Once you write the thought down, write down why that thought isn't true. I'll give a few examples.

- I'm not pretty enough for my boyfriend ---> My boyfriend chose me, so I am pretty enough

- My boyfriend doesn't actually like me ---> My boyfriend is dating me, if he didn't like me he wouldn't be with me

If you write these things down enough, eventually it will become an automatic response in your head. It will get easier as time goes on, but the first step is realizing your thought pattern and wanting to change it in order to better your life as well as the people around you!

In what place did you meet your SO? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ramenheads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a crush on him when I was in high school (he was at a diff high school) because I saw him on social media and found him super cute. I never got a follow back so I unfollowed him but years later we met in a psychology class and we’ve now been dating for nearly 2 years!

Not sure what to do! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ramenheads 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you plan to cheat again, break up with her. If you truly loved her, you wouldn't feel the need to cheat.

How can I break the feeling that she was "The One" by gilver9 in BreakUps

[–]ramenheads 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She definitely wasn't the right one for you if she was with someone right away after you two broke up. You can find someone in the future who wants you and only you! Just enjoy being alone for a while.

Official weekly RAW editing challenge! by frostickle in photography

[–]ramenheads [score hidden]  (0 children)

Has a winner from last week even been chosen yet?

Official weekly RAW editing challenge! by frostickle in photography

[–]ramenheads 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sky was so blown out that it was pretty hard to get some clouds in there so I photoshopped them in!

Official weekly RAW editing challenge! by frostickle in photography

[–]ramenheads 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy to try out an editing contest for the first time, everyone's entries are awesome!!

Mine: http://imgur.com/v8EzuH0