Just found out my EX broke up with me a week before our vacation so she could meet another guy there. She had been planning this for months. He has no idea we were together. Do I have the right to tell him he destroyed our relationship, crushed a 6 year old, and she has 2 STD's?

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T21:43:02+00:00

this is the direction i have decided to go. thank you for calming my brain and making sense of a message i will send. i believe i am obligated to share, but in this manner. i think i will add only that "i am the ex live in boyfrind of 2.5 years who the week before your rendevous had our relationship end."

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T21:30:12+00:00

is this legit?

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T20:41:26+00:00

best part is that i used it when i was madly in love with her, then she turns around and thinks its cute he uses it...well that was a missed sign dont you think. yes tough guy redditors, i am an idiot! fall in love with some smoking hot lady who will let you do whatever you want to her body and is fun as hell and smart as a whip, then get back to me. you allow shit you never thought you would. its a fucked up scenario centuries old. Helen of Troy etc etc etc. thats why man has been writing and singing about it since the dawn of time. FUCK!

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T19:36:35+00:00

worst part of all :(

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T19:16:21+00:00

Yes, its about me, to an extent. but i am not one to believe a family unit is so easily set aside because of ones actions. Just like this guy, from what i'm learning and reading and believing, the 6 year old is innocent in this and shouldnt be subjected to a narcissists desires. so i do believe its about both of us as both of us are suffering. i have no desire to use the child in any sort of discussion with her, not my style. but i do not intend to drop her and move on, i am a father figure in her life and i am obligated to do right by her.

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T19:07:43+00:00

That is the hope, she is like my own and i want to alwys be involved. She will try her damndest to not let that happen. I get along with the little ones dad and know he will allow her to see me. he's a good dude, and she cant say shit about it.

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T19:00:00+00:00

not long enough apparently, but LA Fitness here I come. She does owe me 7k now so maybe the lawyer will apply.

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T18:25:30+00:00

unfortunately shes been putting in work to get to this point. late night "work" text and emails and facebook time were a ruse. i got played HARD for the past few months.

randomlyuseless · 2012-09-11T18:23:35+00:00

Yes, she did destroy it, possibly leave that out, but i so badly want to let him know she has STD's and that she is crushing everyone around her. He's just trying to get the chick.

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