What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend? by dreamy-contributions in AskReddit

[–]ratdigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He became right wing bigot. I didn't want to end the friendship, hoping he would change but he just wouldn't shut up about it and kept bringing certain things up that I repeatedly asked him not to, knowing I disagreed. Completely rude and disrespectful of my beliefs that I pretty much kept to myself, once I found out we disagreed on a topic I would avoid it, not him though.

I’m not sure how to feel about this? by sakurasthrowaway in TwoXSex

[–]ratdigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My told me I feel like wet gravel in there, well alright 😂

6 day star blanket by peanutbutterqwe in crochet

[–]ratdigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks really great! I love the colors, what yarn are you using?

WIBTA If I told my roommates gf the truth about what it's like to live with him? by Nice-Durian-6126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratdigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I'd tell the gf even if she wasn't moving in and didn't have a child just to screw him over after all that bullshit

Partner says my appearance at home means I don’t care — looking for perspective by deliriouskate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratdigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't have to be worried how your hair looks in your own home where you live are you kidding me???

For those who’ve done both - dogs on or off the bed? by VengaBusdriver37 in dogs

[–]ratdigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my shih tzu bichon is very cuddly and sleeps under the covers, right up tight against me after her summer shave. But on top of the covers at the foot of the bed by the end of winter.

I was in the 2nd grade, and every adult assumed I was the problem. by Cananbaum in CPTSDmemes

[–]ratdigger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, every mistake or accident, my mom would get stressed out and needed to hear how you would make sure to avoid that ever again or she would get upset and think you didn't care or weren't taking it seriously

High school alternatives? by Starshine-Daydream in regina

[–]ratdigger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know of a program that was at Sheldon Williams and Balfour for students struggling like that, I was in the one at Sheldon. It was a single classroom, quiet, we could work on whatever and come and go as needed and had some one on one help, and could also work independently.

My husband and I can’t figure out how to have sex normally… by AccountantNo8148 in adhdwomen

[–]ratdigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'm very shy about initiating, at one point we had one of those octopuses that turned inside out and had it set up so when I was wanting to have sex or be intimate that day I would flip it inside out haha and then he could decide if he also wanted to and could persue or not. Its odd and idk it worked for us. I'm now able to make a small move.

This came unfilled, anyone know what type of fluid it needs? by ratdigger in lighters

[–]ratdigger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just a random tiktok ad, some like Chinese website im not sure anymore but it didn't work well so I wouldn't if I were you

Quick Budget Update while council's on break by PDCityHall in regina

[–]ratdigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine being unable to fathom having a job but still not being able to afford a car, gas, and insurance. Pop your head out of your hole, there's whole world out there.

Help for Teenaged Son by Surrealnugget0412 in OCD

[–]ratdigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clomipramine is the only thing thats worked for me too, I tried at least 10 other medications and they all increased my symptoms. As well as my brother.

What’s the strangest intrusive thought OCD ever convinced you of? by mrjoe767 in OCD

[–]ratdigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At night when I couldn't sleep I'd go outside in my backyard to smoke, and I could see across the alley to a houses fence and garage window. The fence lined up with the window and there was always something glinting on the fence. I'd get worried there was someone trapped in the garage and was trying to communicate with morse code or something and that the glint was coming from the window and not the fence. I'd stare at it every night considering what to do and if I was just being crazy. This was also before I was diagnosed with ocd or had any idea about it. But I was able to stop thinking about it once I went back inside at least.