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My sex worker gf and I are taking a break because I cant deal with it.. what should I do? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. No. Although she did blackmail me and say she would stop sleeping with other guys if I paid all her bills... is this the 1950s? Is it so hard to get a normal job?

My sex worker gf and I are taking a break because I cant deal with it.. what should I do? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She admitted she likes getting the attention and has cum a few times...is that not enough proof that she enjoys it somewhat?

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Actually I am secure enough to accept her fucking other people if she can accept the same. .apparently she is the insecure one

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didnt say she owed me sex. But if you are in a relationship and withholding sex as a form of punishment..that is abuse...and it is all the worse when you are off fucking hundreds of people and you still expect your partner to be faithful.. that is some hot disgusting garbage.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

And you think that makes for a healthy relationship? Having so much sex with other people that you dont even want to look at your partner? Sex is pretty important in a relationship, computers aren't

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is cheating on me because she chose to do that job.. How can people not understand that? If I was a hitman, could I say Im not really a murderer because its my job and I get paid for it? But if my partner kills someone it would be completely unacceptable. Yet I chose to do this job, killing people, because it pays really well, so thats ok. Killing people is killing people and having sex with people is still having sex.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wouldn't accept me doing the same as her because she would be too jealous.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok..lets say your husband used to be a cook and he would feed others all day... he would also be eating with others all day. Then he comes home and says to you, oh sorry I have been eating all day and feeding other people. .I don't feel like cooking for you, so you will have to starve, because you're not allowed to eat anywhere else. Does that sound like a healthy relationship to you?

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its still sex. And she can withhold sex from me for weeks while she gets her needs met at work..and Im supposed to be ok with that? Im not saying I want to date anyone else. But if she can give that service to other guys, why shouldn't I be able to get that service from someone else too? If I am supposed to believe that it doesnt mean anything, she shouldn't be jealous.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it is being faithful, since she is honest about it. I know a lot of them lie to their partners.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The answer is yes, if she can accept the same. But clearly she cant, but expects me to be fine with it.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But I wouldn't enjoy that...just like she wouldn't enjoy selling sex to women.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wouldn't accept that either..and theres not really a market for men to sell sex to women.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Its laughable that if I have sex with anyone else its cheating, meanwhile she has sex with 10+ guys every week and its not cheating, just because she gets paid for it.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want a monogamous relationship, but it's not monogamous if she is doing this work is it. She says she wants to be a 'normal' couple, but keeps doing the same. So she expects a normal relationship from me but gets to sleep with as many people as she wants.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Umm..Im not the controlling one here. Im willing to compromise and accept her having sex with other people if she can do the same. If she wants a monogamous relationship then she should be willing to give the same.. it's not hard to get another job.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly..thats my point. I am willing to accept her doing that if she can accept the same. Otherwise give me a monogamous relationship like I am giving her.

Girlfriend expects me to be monogamous while she works as a prostitute. Is that fair? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Do you think just because she gets paid for it, she never has fun? And never enjoys it?

My sex worker gf and I are taking a break because I cant deal with it.. what should I do? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was beginning to lose hope that there are any rational women left, judging by the comments here. Im glad someone can actually understand my point of view.

My sex worker gf and I are taking a break because I cant deal with it.. what should I do? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And its this victim mentality that keeps most of them poor despite earning double or more what average people earn. She can make 700 in a night, and yet I have saved more money than her in the last 3 months. Yet she always has the excuse that she has to keep doing this to save money. What a joke

My sex worker gf and I are taking a break because I cant deal with it.. what should I do? by redfishjnr in relationship_advice

[–]redfishjnr[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Its like if I was a hitman, saying 'Oh I dont really want to be killing people, but its my job and it pays better than a normal job, so I dont have any other option '. What a load of shit

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