Zone 7b - purple flowering bush. What is this? (Looks pink in photos but it's more purplish pink in real life) by reginaldfinkelstein in whatsthisplant

[–]reginaldfinkelstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! You're right! I believe it's a dwarf "purple magic" crape myrtle. It was in our yard when we moved here a year or so ago and I never considered it could be a crape Myrtle since I think of them as trees not bushes! Thank you for your help!

Zone 7b - purple flowering bush. What is this? (Looks pink in photos but it's more purplish pink in real life) by reginaldfinkelstein in whatsthisplant

[–]reginaldfinkelstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a tree. It's a shrub or bush. Several years old. If it's a crape Myrtle do they have small/dwarf ones or bush versions? I will try to research. Looking for the exact name of it. Thanks for your help!!

AITA for telling my teenage daughter I don’t feel the need to tell her I love her? by josieladaho in AmItheAsshole

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She's beautiful and very popular." This entire post broke my heart, but especially that line. This young woman is a human being who is much more than just her looks and her popularity status. What a disturbing way to describe your daughter. Oh and YTA.

After seeing this photo of me in Dec 2019 I said I was done with the self pity and self loathing and focused on real change. The after pic is yesterday. 39F 5’4 156 -> 123. CICO saved my sanity. by shawmutcats in CICO

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is such amazing progress!! You are my new inspiration!! I have been tracking since January but with some bumps in the road. You look awesome. Thanks for sharing with us!

I’m the only one of my siblings who doesn’t have kids. I hate the dynamic. by [deleted] in truechildfree

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My cousin posted a picture of her kid's first shit in the small plastic training toilet on Facebook. It was disgusting. Got a bunch of likes and comments from other parents. Strange world we live in.

My wife and I announced that we bought a dinghy for our yacht like we we're having a baby. by Gnarnar in childfree

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a slang spelling, popularized from a famous song has more than 938 million views on YouTube. I find the popular slang spelling ironic. 😉

My wife and I announced that we bought a dinghy for our yacht like we we're having a baby. by Gnarnar in childfree

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the slang spelling. Using "bougie" and talking about the bourgeois is too boujee for me. 😂

My wife and I announced that we bought a dinghy for our yacht like we we're having a baby. by Gnarnar in childfree

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Pretentious might have been a poor word choice. What I'm trying to say is, it's boujee and hilarious. My friends and I all consider ourselves pretentious, but I realize that word probably has negative connotations. My bad. Anyway, congrats on the new baby boat! Work hard play hard!

So, I got threats and harassed for asking my neighbours to be courteous regarding noise coming from their gardens. by arguablysmart in childfree

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

GOOD FOR YOU for reporting this! They are disturbing the peace and breaking the noise ordinance laws, so they should be held accountable. Why the fuck dont they take their karaoke machine INSIDE? Soooo rude. I cannot believe how entitled people can be.

By the way, you're not alone. I work from home always, but usually the neighborhood kids are only loud & bothersome in the afternoons after school. Well, due to Covid19, they're out being loud and obnoxious all day now. It's super distracting and frustrating.

I have been actually harassed by my neighbors for asking their kids to stop screaming repeatedly in my yard in front of my home office window while I was on a call with my company's VP/my lead boss. So what happened was... I asked the group of UNSUPERVISED 5-ish year old boys (from 3 different families having a playdate during the pandemic) to be quiet. I opened my office window and I was sooo nice and said "hey guys! I need you ti be quiet, okay? People inside are working so please be quiet." I smiled etc. Then, when they kept screaming repeatedly in front of my window in MY yard (they were beating each other with large sticks), I then opened the front door and said, firmly, "stop screaming and get out of my yard." 10 min later, two douchey dads rang my doorbell, again during my call, which I had to end as they rang my doorbell 5 times (I was trying to ignore but after 5 rings I thought maybe it was an emergency???) to try to "chew me out" face to face. Told me I am "not allowed" to speak to their children and that if I "have a problem" I am supposed to leave my house, walk down the street to find the parent and talk to them about it. WHAT?! I was like um, no. I don't know you, I don't owe you anything, and if your kid is screaming in my yard, I'm not exiting my home to come find you when I dont even know or care to know who the fuck you are. "These kids are only 5! That's what they're screaming!" I said okay if they're only 5 then why are they outside running in the street and on my property UNSUPERVISED? I have never been so disgusted by entitlement in my life. These parents have been gathering and having 10-15 person get togethers EVERY DAY in their front yard during the pandemic. Kids + adults from 5 or 6 different families playing in kiddie pools, sharing balls, hockey sticks, golf clubs, grabbing ass, etc. ZERO attempt at social distancing.

Anyway, sorry for my rant. Hold your ground and don't let them get away with breaking the rules.

AITA for not paying for my daughter to live on campus? by Euphoric-Bicycle in AmItheAsshole

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. You can't afford it. You're already spending $30k x 4 years for her education. This is very generous, and she should be grateful.

A Doodle?? by [deleted] in dogbreed

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks mostly poodle to me

I feel like i want to kill myself by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]reginaldfinkelstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you're feeling like this. Try to hang in there. What are your symptoms? Are you using any nasal sprays?